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Cycles

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In Come Here To Me's first bonus episode, Figs and Teale break down what "a cycle" means in a relationship by exploring the emotional bonding needs every human is born with.

Timestamps:

01:00 Small talk

03:48 Introduction to topic, "The Cycle"

05:46 "The problem is not the problem"

09:33 Surfer bro interlude: Just keep swimming

11:37 Couples fight because they love each other

12:38 "The solution itself is not the answer," Do you both feel loved?

14:48 Reptilian insults

16:07 "If you really love me" conversations

17:56 Attachment theory / emotional bonding

23:42 "This is the one that I hope my emotional love needs will be met by."

26:20 Honeymoon's end

26:59 Feeling unloved prompts a negative reaction

28:02 Reaction prompts negative response

28:57 What is a cycle?

33:09 ...Fiddling

33:43 Let it feel like a relief: you're fighting because you love each other so much!

38:47 The key isn't to avoid getting into a cycle, it's to get out of the cycle once it's started.

Visit comeheretomepodcast.com for episode transcripts, social media links, and to subscribe to the mailing list.

If you or someone you love are struggling in your relationship, visit empathi.com for the relationship quiz, courses, and therapy consultations.

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Inhoud geleverd door Empathi, Figs O'Sullivan, and Teale O'Sullivan. Alle podcastinhoud, inclusief afleveringen, afbeeldingen en podcastbeschrijvingen, wordt rechtstreeks geüpload en geleverd door Empathi, Figs O'Sullivan, and Teale O'Sullivan of hun podcastplatformpartner. Als u denkt dat iemand uw auteursrechtelijk beschermde werk zonder uw toestemming gebruikt, kunt u het hier beschreven proces https://nl.player.fm/legal volgen.

In Come Here To Me's first bonus episode, Figs and Teale break down what "a cycle" means in a relationship by exploring the emotional bonding needs every human is born with.

Timestamps:

01:00 Small talk

03:48 Introduction to topic, "The Cycle"

05:46 "The problem is not the problem"

09:33 Surfer bro interlude: Just keep swimming

11:37 Couples fight because they love each other

12:38 "The solution itself is not the answer," Do you both feel loved?

14:48 Reptilian insults

16:07 "If you really love me" conversations

17:56 Attachment theory / emotional bonding

23:42 "This is the one that I hope my emotional love needs will be met by."

26:20 Honeymoon's end

26:59 Feeling unloved prompts a negative reaction

28:02 Reaction prompts negative response

28:57 What is a cycle?

33:09 ...Fiddling

33:43 Let it feel like a relief: you're fighting because you love each other so much!

38:47 The key isn't to avoid getting into a cycle, it's to get out of the cycle once it's started.

Visit comeheretomepodcast.com for episode transcripts, social media links, and to subscribe to the mailing list.

If you or someone you love are struggling in your relationship, visit empathi.com for the relationship quiz, courses, and therapy consultations.

  continue reading

41 afleveringen

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