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Parenting a child with a vulnerable nervous system can feel like navigating a maze blindfolded. But what if we told you that understanding the balance between enabling and co-regulation could be your guiding light? This week, we break down this crucial contrast, demystifying the term 'enabling', often misconstrued in the mental health field, and venture into the science behind lowering demands - a strategy that can bolster your child’s stress response system.
In this episode you'll learn:

The importance of being self-attuned to what's hard vs. too hard
How to determine between lowering demands for your own comfort and doing it because it is genuinely too arduous for your child
The difference between enabling/codependent behaviors and co-regulation

Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Connection or Protection??? {7}
What to do after We Mess up {80}
Stress Response System {94}
Read a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/Enabling
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Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With

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REPLAY: Enabling vs Low-Demand Parenting

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

56 subscribers

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MP3•Thuis aflevering

The importance of being self-attuned to what's hard vs. too hard
How to determine between lowering demands for your own comfort and doing it because it is genuinely too arduous for your child
The difference between enabling/codependent behaviors and co-regulation

Over on my website you can find:

Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub.

We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025!

:::

The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store

:::

Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook

Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub

Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith

296 afleveringen

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Monitoring and modifying are the two essential elements of regulation. ~ Dr. Dan Siegel When we really understand what makes up the skill of self-regulation, we can be more intentional about helping our kids develop those skills. We can also be more understanding and compassionate when they aren't able to use those skills! This episode explores the skills of monitoring (noticing) and modifying (changing) our level of arousal and activation as the main ingredients of self-regulation. Remember that self-regulation can only develop with enough co-regulation. But once there is a strong foundation of co-regulation, we can encourage our kids to develop the skills to notice and change (when appropriate or needed!) their level of arousal. In this episode, you’ll learn The main ingredients of self-regulation- monitor & modify How to scaffold up to teaching kids to monitor and modify How to have appropriate expectations about your child’s ability to monitor and modify, even after they have learned the skills Resources mentioned in this podcast: The Whole-Brain Child - Dr. Dan Siegal No-Drama Discipline - Dr. Dan Siegal Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/ingredient Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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EP 214: Helping Kids with Medical Trauma with Rose LaPiere 48:50

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Medical trauma can feel confusing because in many circumstances, we are seeking out the very medical interventions that our kids experience as traumatic. Trauma is in the eye of the beholder. Some kids experience trauma due to their time in the NICU. Some kids experience trauma at the dentist. Some kids experience trauma due to an emergency or accident. Much of the time, parents feel helpless or even guilty for ‘causing’ the trauma. In this episode, you’ll learn How medical treatment can have a traumatic impact How to help kids make sense of confusing medical treatment A couple of ideas for how to help kids prepare for medical treatment Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/medicaltrauma Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 213: Resentment & Parenting 43:27

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Resentment. We’ve all felt it. Very little about this parenting journey has gone according to plan. We’ve done the hard work- the never-ending work actually - of rewiring everything we thought we knew about behavior, what it means to be human, how to parent, and how to have a family. Some days we do it without a second thought. Some days are full of resentment and anger. You aren’t a bad person. But resentment feels bad! In this episode, you’ll learn The very important job that resentment does for you A message that resentment might be trying to tell you The importance of staying curious - and not shaming - about the feeling of resentment Resources mentioned in this podcast: When Parenting is Traumatic {EP 95} Grief in Parenting Kids with Vulnerable Nervous Systems {EP 129} Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/resentment Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 212: Are We Just Rewarding Bad Behavior? 44:37

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One of the harder things to navigate when shifting to a nervous system lens on behavior is the feeling that a lot of the strategies seem like they are rewarding bad behavior. Strategies that invite regulation, connection, and felt safety are usually strategies that feel good. If our kids feel good after bad behavior, will they have MORE bad behavior?? In this episode, you’ll learn What it might be signaling if you’re wondering if you’re rewarding bad behavior How to avoid unintentionally increasing the likelihood of dysregulation in the future Why it’s reallllllly important to offer connection, co-regulation and felt safety strategies when you are in connection mode Resources mentioned in this podcast: Enabling vs. Low-Demand Parenting {EP 144} Is It Time to Raise the Bar? {EP 207} Amanda Diekman - @lowdemandamanda Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/rewardbadbehavior Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 211: Hard? Too Hard? For PARENTS!!! 27:51

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We talk a lot about hard very too hard for your kids (thanks Amanda Diekman for that hard vs. too hard language!). But have you considered applying that concept to yourself? This is intensive parenting! Far beyond when parenting is supposed to get less intensive, you’re still giving super-hero level scaffolding, supervision and co-regulation - and it’s a LOT! In this episode, you’ll learn How to assess for when it’s just TOO hard- for YOU! The importance of making an owl-brain decision about things being too hard (or not) Ways to increase support at the same time as you lower demands for yourself Resources mentioned in this podcast: Enabling vs. Low-Demand podcast Amanda Diekman - Low Demand Parenting on Instagram Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toohard Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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{BONUS} Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior- webinar replay 54:41

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This BONUS episode is the audio from my FREE webinar, Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior. This webinar aired lived on 02/04/2025. You can watch the video webinar for free over at https://RobynGobbel.com/webinar You can also download the free, accompanying resources, including: eBook, fridge sheets about the Owl, Watchdog, and Possum, all the slides as handouts, and some additional accompanying infographics. ::: Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep 210: Sabotage and Being Set Up 35:40

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It’s very common to feel like our kids are either intentionally sabotaging good things or that they are purposefully setting us up to be mad or disappointed or to have to say no. You aren’t imagining this phenomenon! All humans do it, but our kids with vulnerable nervous system and big, baffling behaviors may seem like they do it more often. In this episode, you’ll learn The neuroscience behind WHY our kids sabotage situations or set us up to be dysregulated What they are really doing (and it’s actually full of hope) How we might respond differently that could actually change their brain Resources mentioned in this podcast: Rupture Repair podcast episode Match the Energy not the Dysregulation podcast episode Regulated, not Calm podcast episode Brilliant of Attachment podcast series & eBook, which goes deeper into the concept of hope vs. expectation Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/setup Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 209: No One is Coming to Save Us 43:43

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It took me a looooooong time to really truly believe and understand that- no one is coming to save me. I had to do the hard work to take responsibility for my own triggers, my own nervous system, my own change. This only happened after oodles and oodles of safety, connection, and co-regulation. Maybe you, like me, have held onto the hope that someone else will fix this. Your child will change, you’ll get the services you need, something will happen and everything will get better. Maybe this journey through some of the intimate moments of my own healing journey can assist you on your’s. Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/saveus Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 208: Bravely Being With Grief with Rose LaPiere 50:07

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Rose LaPiere LPC, RPT-S, and ACS invites into a space of safety and connection so we can make room for grief. Rose brings her own experiences of grief to her work as a play therapist (and co-leader in Robyn’s immersive training program for parenting professionals, Being With) so she can bravely welcome in, and be with, her client’s big, at times overwhelming, feelings. In this episode, you’ll learn The importance of authenticity, naming, and acknowledge even really really hard feelings The role of playfulness is processing grief The importance of self-compassion for the grown-ups and therapists supporting kids and families in their grief Resources mentioned in this podcast: Rose's Website! - RoseLaPiere.com Read the full transcript at: URL goes here Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 207: Is It Time to Raise the Bar? 39:22

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You’ve lowered stress and demands. You’ve reframed your child’s behavior as a response from their autonomic nervous system. You’ve worked hard to help your child’s stress response system rest and begin to heal Now what? In this episode, you’ll learn How rest is only one part of the healing process The importance of reintroducing stress The difference between stress that prompts growth and stress that leads to injury and burn-out Resources mentioned in this podcast: Stress Response System {EP 94} Scaffolding Felt Safety {EP 205} Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/RaiseTheBar Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 206: Punishment Free Parenting with Jon Fogel 1:07:36

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Jon Fogel is a dad who combined his passion for parenting, neuroscience, and impacting the world to create a viral social media account (@wholeparent) and then to publish his book, Punishment-Free Parenting. Jon and I get lost in some pretty deep topics together, including How he helps parents make huge parenting shifts How parenting with punishment relies on a pretty pessimistic view of humanity Boundaries vs. Consequences vs. Punishments Resources mentioned in this podcast: Punishment Free Parenting by Jon Fogel Jon’s Instagram: Whole Parent Dive into these topics further on past Baffling Behavior Show episodes Boundaries Series (ep. 111, 113, & 115) Ep. 56: But what about a consequence Ep. 134 What if Trauma Informed Isn’t? Ep. 54: Has Trauma Informed Become another Behavior Modification Technique? Ep. 30: Trauma Behavior? Or just acting up? Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/punishmentfree Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 205: Scaffolding Felt Safety 57:23

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How do we help kids feel safe when they are safe? How do we help them take in the safety that exists in their life when their life experiences seem to have convinced them that nothing is safe. Scaffolding. Yes, we can scaffold felt safety. My recovery from a very serious back injury left me pondering the importance of felt safety in taking risks and the necessity of scaffolding felt safety. In this episode, you’ll learn The importance of relationship in felt safety How even felt safety must be scaffolded for folx who don’t have a lot of experience being safe in relationship How amazing it is that our hurt kids risk relationship at all, and how it makes sense that sometimes they won’t Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/scaffoldingfeltsafety Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Ep. 204: The Way of Play with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson 55:45

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Play makes kids stronger. It’s necessary for their physical and emotional development, and even their academic development. Play helps kids work through and make sense of hard things. A few months ago I went searching for a resource that teaches parents some of skills I used as a play therapist because I am passionate about breaking down barriers and teaching these skills to as many adults as possible- not just therapists. Tina Payne Bryson’s newest book (co-authored with Georgie Wisen-Vincent), The Way of Play, is exactly this resource. It was a delight to connect with Dr. Payne Bryson and get a sneak peek into her new book, The Way of Play. In this episode, you’ll learn Why play is so important The 7 Strategies in PlayStrong Parenting How to Bring Emotions to Life How to Make Yourself a Mirror Resources mentioned in this podcast: Dr. Tina Payne Bryson’s website The Way of Play new book- preorder by January 20 The Way of Play PreOrder Bonus Virtual Event Registration Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/wayofplay Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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REPLAY: Living with Someone Chronically Dysregulated 28:34

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Do you live with someone or love someone who is chronically dysregulated? This episode isn’t an episode that is going to tell you what to do. This is an episode of commiseration. Of “I see you.” It is exhausting to live with someone who is chronically unhappy, or chronically dysregulated. Knowing you’re not alone can help. In this episode, you’ll learn How nervous systems match each other How we get our sense of safety from the state of each other’s nervous system The serve & return and rhythms of relationship, and what happens when that gets disrupted Resources mentioned in this podcast: Self-Regulation Doesn’t Exist!! When Parenting Is Traumatic {EP 95} Felt Safety (Between) - Part 3 {EP 163} Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/chronicallydysregulated Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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Have you ever felt confused by your child’s silly behavior? It seems like they are having fun, but it doesn’t feel good at all? In this episode, you’ll learn How to tell the difference between fun-silly and dysregulated-silly What’s going on in the brain and nervous system for a child who is dysregulated-silly Practical ideas for how to support your child returning to regulation, connection, and felt safety Resources mentioned in this podcast: The Connected Therapist by Marti Smith Join The Club! Watch Marti's Master Class! - robyngobbel.com/theclub Marti’s video podcast & lycra tutorials: https://martiot.podbean.com/ What Does Vulnerable Nervous System Mean? {EP 122} Match The Energy, NOT The Dysregulation {Ep 155} Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/silliness Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With Interested in joining The Club? Check out the details at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub . We will be welcoming new members soon- April 1-4, 2025! ::: The All-About-Me workbook will help your child grow their owl brain and develop ways to calm their watchdog and possum brain. 24 page, full-color, instant download at RobynGobbel.com/store Check Out All Robyn's Free Resources! You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources ::: Buy Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BafflingBook Join The Club (or get on the waiting list!) over at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub Hop on the waiting list for Being With- an immersive professional training program exploring the neurobiology of big, baffling behaviors at RobynGobbel.com/BeingWith…

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