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SWM 098 – Energy, mutual masturbation, orgasm struggles, desire type quiz and meeting other couples

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October 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

  • Where does the energy come from?
  • Mutual masturbation
  • Sharing fantasies and machines
  • Masturbation due to struggles with orgasming
  • Spontaneous / Responsive desire quiz
  • Why do married men masturbate?
  • How do you meet other people?
  • Can I use sex to encourage my husband to lose weight?

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.

Thank you to all our faithful champions!

If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference!

Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

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October 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

  • Where does the energy come from?
  • Mutual masturbation
  • Sharing fantasies and machines
  • Masturbation due to struggles with orgasming
  • Spontaneous / Responsive desire quiz
  • Why do married men masturbate?
  • How do you meet other people?
  • Can I use sex to encourage my husband to lose weight?

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5.

Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.

Thank you to all our faithful champions!

If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference!

Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

  continue reading

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Oct, Nov, Dec 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Talking about a lack of sex Not drive due to cancer treatments Wife doesn't want to use lube Our sex life is routine Strap-on to help with premature ejaculation Do husbands like handjobs? Can a married couple film themselves during sex? Is sex better on a full stomach? How do you start anal sex? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: SWM 002 - Getting rid of veto power in the bedroom (podcast) Sexual Frequency - Why I don't worry anymore (post) SWM 125 - Rethinking duty sex (podcast) Coaching (service) My wife wants me to tie her up?! (post) BDSM Survey Results (post) Some rough sex statistics (post) The art of edging (ebook) MarriedDance.com - Hollow strap-on (toy) Where did my sex drive go? (ebook) Do Christians make sex tapes? The way to her heart? Response to romantic cues is dependent on hunger state and dieting history: An fMRI pilot study (study) Ghrelin is related to lower brain reward activation during touch (study) Becoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian Wives (webinar) Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review . They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 144 - Why wives have a complicated relationship with sex and what to do about it. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. One of our supporters posted a question in our forum which led to a bit of a discussion on what men perceive as sexy, and it shook the questioner a bit, because it was radically different from what she had been led to believe her whole life. This led into a larger discussion about why women tend to have more hangups about sex than men do. I shared my thoughts in the forum in a bit of a rant and then realized that I don’t know if I’ve really tackled this a whole lot on the blog and podcast. If I have, it’s been a few years, so it’s time for a refresher for the new people. So, I’m going to try and make it a little less ranty and a little more coherent and see if maybe I can teach some other wives and women out there a bit about what many men think regarding sex in the hopes that it might help some marriages, present or future. What does the Bible say about hell (and our souls)(blog post/podcast episode) Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course) Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
I feel like I have some explaining to do. A couple of weeks ago, I shared that lately, Christina and I have started having sex a lot more than usual. We had more sexual encounters last month than there were days in the month. We’re at about 30 for this month already. This has led to some questions by some people. I wrote a large thread in our supporter’s forum to try and answer them all and thought it might be helpful here. Because it goes beyond just an “ask me anything” sort of post. It’s really about how we’ve adapted sex to deal with sexual dysfunction in a way that’s not only positive but actually ends up being more fun and connecting than I think most people’s sex lives are.I’m going to try to adapt a forum thread into a post and see how it goes. If you want to read the original, then you have to become a supporter , and you can search for the thread called “Sex with erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation” because there’s more to the thread than this topic, but I’m just pulling out the topic I wanted to hit today in this post.To start off, we’ve dealt with some sexual dysfunction for our entire marriage. Christina has had vaginismus (pain during penetration). I deal with erectile dysfunction most of the time and also delayed ejaculation , which means it’s hard for me to orgasm. Christina also suffers from post-coital depression, which means after she has an orgasm, she tends to get depressed for the next day or two.As such, we’ve had to redefine sex. Most people, I find, tend to have a fairly narrow expression of sex. They often have the same routine – some sort of initiation, some sort of foreplay during which the wife might orgasm, then penetration until he orgasms, then they’re done.It might change a bit, but for a lot of people, that’s what sex is. When they say “sex,” they often only mean the penetrative part, and foreplay is a separate category.But what happens when penetration doesn’t happen? What if you have ED? What if you have vaginismus? What if he can’t orgasm (like I can’t a third of the time) – when does it stop? What if you’re the wife and you don’t want an orgasm first because then you get depressed/bored and aren’t really interested in continuing? Sorry, Ian , not every wife wants to come first.These are all things we’ve had to deal with. So, how do you still have sex with all that going on? Well, I’ll tell you. What counts as sex?For us, sex isn’t solely defined by penetration. In fact, only about half of our sexual encounters include PIV sex. Instead, we view any activity that involves arousal and genitals as part of our sexual life. A night might only include manual sex, or it might include oral sex. It might include blindfolds, cuffs, toys and more, and still not have any PIV sex. We still consider it sex, though.This broader definition helps us keep intimacy alive, no matter what happens. If I can’t get hard, that’s okay because we’ve built a sexual repertoire that doesn’t require an erection. We have many other options, even before we get to toys, which don’t come out that often anymore.When does sex end?For most couples, it seems sex ends when the husband has had an orgasm. This is part of the reason for the “she comes first” advice we see everywhere because if she doesn’t have an orgasm first, then she might not get one at all.For us, orgasm is not the end of the fun. It’s not even the goal. For me, it’s often not even possible. Delayed ejaculation can make it so that you run out of energy before you get to orgasm. For Christina,…
 
August 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Dealing with differing sex drives in marriage (page) MarriedDance.com (store) RomanticBlessings.com (store - US only) LoveHopeAdventure.com (blog) HotHolyHumorous.com (blog) Gary Thomas (substack) BDSM for Christians The art of edging (ebook) BDSM survery results (post) Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review . They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
Agust 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife trades chores for sex How to handle no sex due to birth Water-based lube that doesn’t cause UTIs Guy’s relationships always end in affairs Post-childbirth and penis size preferences Wife is a gatekeeper Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Sliquid H20 Lube (product) How does breast or penis size affect sex (survey) Responsive desire is a blessing (post) Desire vs willingness (post) Where did my sex drive go (ebook) Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review . They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
July 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife’s love dependent on mood Why don’t you direct people to God? Can’t seem to manage other positions Wife rejects exploration and being seen Nervous about sex outdoors Crossdressing rehash Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire - The Lion Within Us (podcast) Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused SWM 068 (podcast) SWM 070 (podcast) SWM 099 (podcast) Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress? (post) Healing from crossdressing Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review . They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 139 - Why won't my spouse do x? I would do it for them. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Recently, I’ve noticed a question popping up all over the place. It’s come up in our supporter forum, coaching sessions, emails, comments in our latest survey, and more. This question points to a fundamental tension in many marriages - at the root of it is a self-centric desire. The desire for our spouse to serve our own needs and expectations. Whether it's about sex or more subtle emotional needs, this recurring question often revolves around a common theme: a wish for partners to be more like ourselves. For men, this question frequently focuses on sexual matters. Some men wonder why their spouses don’t engage in sex as often as they would like or why they don’t fulfill certain specific desires. On the other hand, when women voice similar concerns, the issues are often more nuanced. Many women express frustration with their partner's inability to intuitively understand their needs without explicit communication. And, of course, in some marriages, those dynamics are reversed. Both scenarios boil down to a deeper, more universal issue: the tendency to project our own needs and expectations onto our spouses, often without fully considering their unique perspectives and experiences. In this post, we’ll delve into why this tendency is problematic and how understanding our partner’s individual differences can relieve this frustration. Our latest survey (on the topic of BDSM) Spontaneous desire is a blessing (post/podcast) Responsive desire is a blessing (post/podcast) Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire (post) How to feel "connected" during sex (post/podcast) Desire vs willingness (post) Trapped gatekeepers - blame the guard, not the prisoner (post) Our Sexploration List (resource) Marriage coaching Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 138 - BDSM Survey Results. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete responses from a wide range of couples, some for whom BDSM is part of their daily life, others who were engaging in BDSM activities didn’t think what they were doing qualified, others who wished they were doing such things but didn’t know how to start, and those who thought it was disgusting that I even considered asking questions about such a topic. or the last three weeks, I’ve spent evenings and weekends digging through the data, coding it, doing pivot tables, building charts, running correlation formulas, and more, trying to get what I can out of it. It’s aptly called data mining because often it feels like sifting through a lot of rocks and dirt just to try and find a nugget of something valuable contained. Today, I’m going to share what I found. K7Fit - 14 Day Energy Challenge Join as a supporter to get access to all the survey comments Marriage Coaching Arousal Non-Concordance Interested in a Christian BDSM forum/resource? Click here. Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 137 - Why we don't spank our children. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Last week, Gary Thomas posted an article on his substack on the topic of discipline vs. punishment—not taking a stance but rather offering it up as a controversial conversation starter. Reading it made me curious about something—does your view of hell change your parenting approach? After all, if God is our example, and you believe that hell is eternal punishment, does that then lend to a more heavy-handed approach to parenting versus someone who believes that hell is an act of mercy? I posted that question in our forum, and it then led to a discussion on using physical punishment on children. I spent a fair bit of time in the last week or two writing on that thread, and so I thought I’d repurpose it here for those who might be curious about how we raised our children. We, Christina and I, don’t believe hell is eternal torture. We don’t believe such a view is in keeping with the Bible. We grew up in a denomination that taught it was, and it was one of the reasons we left because the doctrine couldn’t stand up to either biblical scrutiny or logic as we saw it. If you want to know why and/or argue that stance, I fully welcome you to read the post What happens when you die? That’s not the point of this post. The point of this post is to share why we don’t spank our children, and now that my children are growing up into adults, what the outcome of such a choice has been. Links mentioned in this episode: Gary Thomas' article - Discipline vs Punishment (Substack) What happens when you die? (Post) Spanking and Child Development: We Know Enough Now To Stop Hitting Our Children (Study) Spanking and Child Outcomes: Old Controversies and New Meta-Analyses (Study) The Research on Spanking and Its Implications for Intervention (PDF) Don't forget to participate in our BDSM survey - whether you engage in that sort of behaviour or not. Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
June 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife thinks she has to be mean to our children Golden showers (again) Wife can’t decide if she loves me or not Just because you’re experienced, doesn’t mean you’re qualified Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: SWM 029 - Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives BDSM Survey Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review . They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 135 - It's good to try new things. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Most kids, when growing up, enter a picky stage at some point. Some when they’re toddlers, some when they’re young children, some when they become teenagers. When our 3rd or 4th kid entered this phase, everyone knew the response when they didn’t want to eat something new that we’d made. “It’s good to try new things.” They didn’t have to eat it all but had to try it—a decent try, not a touch to the tongue followed by an exaggerated exclamation of disgust. Teaching children to at least give something new a fair shot, I think, has applications later on in life as well. I often talk to husbands and wives whose spouses simply will not try anything new in the bedroom. One will bring up an idea, and it’s immediately shot down by the “picky” spouse—the one who is perfectly happy with the flavour of vanilla every night. Today, I want to talk about why I think it’s good to try new things - not only when it comes to food, but also in the bedroom - or outside of the bedroom, depending on how much privacy you have. We’re going to talk about the interplay between dopamine, controlled risk-taking, adventure and trust in marriages as it pertains to sex and more. Don't forget to participate in our BDSM survey - whether you engage in that sort of behaviour or not. Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
May 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How often should a healthy man need sex? Clitoral piercing How do we start talking about sex without hurt feelings? Is it good to masturbate to stay in a sexless marriage Professional nude photos with a male photographer Newly married wife only interested in the same sexual routine Becoming a Christian didn't fix my same-sex attraction Nude beaches How to get better at rejection Struggling with orgasm Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Where did my sex drive go? (free ebook) Marriage Coaching BDSM Survey Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review . They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 133 - Loving your spouse where they are. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I often give beginner homework to my coaching clients. A few of them will likely read this and think, “He was talking about me.” You’re not wrong, but you’re also not alone. I give it out frequently because it helps combat some fundamental problems I see in many marriages: resentment, unmet expectations, and continued disappointment. Whatever caused the resentment doesn’t matter. If you want to improve the marriage, you must get rid of that attitude first. Resentment leads to contempt, and once you hit that point, the marriage is on life support, and it becomes challenging to resurrect. Some come to coaching and realize that they have this issue. They recognize that resentment is an attitude, and attitudes can be changed. They know they can fix it; they just don’t know how or need some support, some accountability, or encouragement to keep up the hard work of changing that mindset. And it is hard work. Reversing that mindset takes time, effort, and consistently following the plan we co-create. There are ups and downs, backslides, and sidetracks. But if they put in the work, then it does happen. Then the fun begins because now we can make some real progress. Others come to coaching convinced their spouse is the issue and work hard to rationalize and justify their attitude toward them. They want me to change their spouse so that they can be happy. Sometimes, they have one foot out the door already, and this is the last-ditch effort to “save the marriage,” by which they mean that if I don’t fix their spouse, they will divorce them. Whatever type they are, they get the same homework. It’s not only the first step to reversing the mindset but also a test to see if they’re coachable. Listen to find out what the homework is. Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 132 - Breast implants and body image issues. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. This episode I'm answer a question I received back in February that I forgot to answer. Here's the question: Hi! To start, I just wanted to say thank you so much for what you do! Your podcast has been immensely eye-opening and helpful! Now, to my question. I am in my 30s, and my husband and I have been together for 15 years. There was porn use by my husband that nearly tore us apart, but after therapy, support groups and endless prayer, I am so thankful to say we are stronger than ever, and he has been porn free for over a year now. It has made a profound difference in our sex life, we feel more connected than ever. That being said, internally, I am still struggling with body image issues. It is not all-consuming but it’s enough to bring me to this point. I have been considering breast augmentation for years now but kept putting it on the back burner due to pregnancy and breastfeeding (we have 3 children). I thought I was completely over the idea and just decided to fully accept my body as is until the porn addiction reared its ugly head. As I said, we are past that, and he has made amazing changes for himself and us, but knowing what he watched and the women he chose to view online has made the idea of breast augmentation appealing again. I am not happy with what 6 years of breastfeeding has left me with. My husband says he loves my body the way it is, but I know I would love it MORE if I got the breast augmentation, and undoubtedly, I know he would too, even if he won’t admit it so as not to hurt my feelings. My question is, do you think seeking a breast augmentation for selfish reasons would be sinful? Would God find that to be an abomination of sorts, a sinful act based on my lack of love towards my body? I know I would feel so much more confident. I truly would. And that would enhance our sex life due to my confidence alone. So, would it be a bad thing to do? I have flip-flopped on this for months now. Some days, I am certain it’s a sinful thing to desire and do, and other days, I’m certain that it does not fall in the category of actual sin. An outside perspective would be so helpful, and I’d appreciate it immensely. I know I need to love the body I have, and I do. It’s the slight pains of the past and the desire to feel confident that entices me. Knowing there are verses in the Bible directly telling the man to love his woman’s beautiful breasts makes my heart drop because mine are anything but beautiful. They are used, tired, and barely there after years of sacrificing my body for our children. So, would making them more appealing really be a bad thing? Or would it be no different than purchasing a new sex toy and having fun in the bedroom as husband and wife? Thank you for your time. Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
SWM 131 - Tips to fight more effectively in your marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Last week, I shared a list of ideas our Couple’s Night group had that helped build a resilient marriage. At the end of the call, we still had some time and started discussing fighting more effectively. Again, the group came up with some excellent ideas I want to share today. Because fights will happen, I might even say they should happen. When I come across a couple that doesn’t fight in any way - that’s a red flag. It means one or both don’t feel safe in the marriage. They aren’t able to express their views and opinions. Because if you put two people together for long enough, they will eventually find something to disagree about. Ideally, a fight won’t involve yelling, screaming, hitting, throwing, or anything else like that, but it’s okay to quarrel. So, today, we will discuss how to fight more effectively in your marriage so that your arguments can be a source of growth instead of damage. For more posts about dealing with conflict effectively check out: SWM 020 - 7 Dirty Fighting Techniques That Should Not Exist In Your Marriage How to use conflict to create intimacy Active Listening Follow us on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum . Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you like that there are no ads in our podcast and want to keep it that way, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, please rate it as it helps others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.…
 
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