Why Hustling Ain't Healthy + EMDR Therapy Breakdown w/ Melissa Dumaz | Episode 187

Girl Stop Playin Podcast | Black Girls Personal Development

On this episode of Girl Stop Playin', I'm sitting down with licensed marriage and family therapist, Melissa Dumaz, to dig deep into the real work of healing and self-care. Melissa is not only an expert in EMDR therapy—a powerful tool for overcoming trauma—but she's also a holistic healing coach who's all about helping women prioritize their well-being without sacrificing their ambition.

We’re talking about everything from recognizing trauma responses in our everyday behavior to the challenges of truly putting ourselves first in a world that tells us to keep pushing. Melissa breaks down how high-achieving women often neglect self-care and why success can sometimes be a trauma response. We’re getting real about setting boundaries, scheduling personal time, and even learning to delegate tasks to protect our peace.

If you're on your own healing journey—or thinking about starting one—this episode is for you. We're not just talking about the what, but the how. How to really sit with yourself, confront your ish, and make meaningful changes. Plus, we dive into EMDR and other wellness practices that might just be the key to unlocking a healthier, happier you. This conversation is all about embracing the messy, uncomfortable work of healing because when you know better, you do better.

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