Beste Help For Stepparents podcasts (2024)

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193. The Advantage of Learning The Basics BEFORE You Blend 1:01:05

6d ago1:01:05

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Most of us start off on the blending journey with some ambiguity about how to deal with the complex dynamics that will come as families merge. It usually doesn't take long before you're blindsided by the reality that there's SO MUCH MORE to blending than first anticipated. Feelings of overwhelm, frustration, and disappointment might hit and you rea…

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Simple Step: Building Trust in Parenting 10:05

13d ago10:05

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Resources: Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We …

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The Problem The Cause and The Solution 11:51

14d ago11:51

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Feeling like an outsider in your own step-family? Discover empowering solutions to common step-parenting challenges in this episode of our podcast. I reflect on the heartfelt feedback from our last outdoor session and introduce you to the life-changing help packages available on my website. You'll gain insights into my tailored three-step process d…

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Unlocking Emotional Clutter: A Journey to Happiness and Mental Clarity 5:36

15d ago5:36

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What if the key to your happiness lies in an old 'filing cabinet' of forgotten emotions? Join me, Martin from Step Parent World, as I unpack a heartfelt conversation I had with a stepmom. We explore how our minds store unresolved feelings and the profound impact they have on our well-being. If you’ve ever felt weighed down by past memories or emoti…

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192. A Simple Process to Navigate Sensitive Conversations About Each Other's Kids 39:05

20d ago39:05

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What's one of THE most challenging "feats" for blended couples to successfully master? Building a healthy, collaborative parenting partnership! What makes this so difficult? The sensitive topic of parenting can naturally kick off an emotionally-charged conversation, ending in disagreement, conflict, and disconnection. If you're anything like us, yo…

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The Unscripted Role of a Step-Parent 14:46

24d ago14:46

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Can you really choose to become a step-parent, or is it a role that finds you? We'll explore this thought-provoking question, inspired by a poignant discussion with one of our clients. Step-parenting is rarely a conscious choice; it's a path we often find ourselves on as we fall in love and gradually step into this complex role. We emphasize the im…

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Simple Step: Money Matters 8:52

27d ago8:52

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Resources Episode 191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with special guests Ron Deal & Greg Pettys] Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards: The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family Click here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult re…

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Transform Your Relationships by Aligning Personal Values 14:37

29d ago14:37

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Unlock the secret to stronger relationships by understanding your personal values! In today's episode, we start by celebrating the heartwarming stories and fabulous feedback from our listeners, like the step-mom who transformed her family dynamics through open communication. Discover how recognizing and discussing your top five values with your par…

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191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with Ron Deal & Greg Pettys] 1:10:40

1M ago1:10:40

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Money is emotional. That's why it can be a touchy subject for couples — whether they're preparing to blend or if they've been blending for a while. Discussing finances can lead to very real challenges. The process of "merging money" can easily become complicated and overwhelming for blended family couples. The complexities tap into deeper emotions …

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Simple Step: Facing Difficult Emotions that Come with Blending 10:01

1M ago10:01

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Resources: Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Stranded Stranger / Trapped Teammate Dynamic) Episode 5. How to Get Over the Hurts and Triggers From Your Past Dr. Patricia L. Papernow - Stepfamily Relationships Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answ…

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190. Where can you turn for help? Understand the Difference Between Counseling and Coaching 42:20

2M ago42:20

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I (Mike) have had so many moments of just feeling stuck. I wondered how we would ever move forward and I figured out pretty early on that I wouldn't be able to sort out all the complex chaos without some support. The problem was, I had no idea what kind of support we needed. And when we were stuck in unhealthy patterns that kept leading to disconne…

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Practical Steps to Be Appreciated in Your Blended Family 21:30

2M ago21:30

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Ever wondered why your contributions as a step-parent often go unnoticed? Uncover practical strategies to feel more appreciated and valued in our latest episode of Step Parent World. We revisit the theme of appreciation, inspired by your positive feedback, and provide actionable steps to transform your feelings of being unappreciated. From asking i…

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Simple Step: How to Respond to a Child's Grief 9:53

2M ago9:53

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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us…

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189. Bringing Hope to the Realities of Grief: A Path to Understanding and Healing [with Krista St-Germain] 1:12:09

2M ago1:12:09

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It's hard to accept that grief is simply a part of every blended family's journey. But that's your reality because everyone in your family has experienced some kind of loss along the way. If you aren't able to acknowledge grief and create a safe space to process through it, you'll miss out on valuable opportunities that lead to healing. In this epi…

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Transforming Unappreciation into Harmony: Practical Strategies for Stepparents 15:15

2M ago15:15

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Feeling undervalued as a step-parent? Discover how to transform unappreciation into harmony within your step-family in our latest episode. Join me, Martin, as we explore the significance of feeling acknowledged and how it impacts your relationships with your partner and children. You'll learn practical strategies to identify the roots of unapprecia…

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Simple Step: Managing "Rule Rage" 10:24

2M ago10:24

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Resources: Episode 20. 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different Rules Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1) Episode 188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2) Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specifi…

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Personal Growth Through Step-Parenting - have you changed? 12:28

3M ago12:28

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Ever wondered how stepping into the role of a step-parent could completely transform your life? Join me, Martin, on Step Parent World as we unravel the complex yet rewarding journey of becoming a step-parent, all inspired by a heartfelt conversation with a newly minted stepmom client. From the unexpected shifts in your environment to the subtle cha…

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188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2) 41:14

3M ago41:14

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Discomfort and distress are common experiences for those of us navigating blended dynamics. One key to learning to manage discomfort and distress well is practicing some simple strategies that acknowledge what you're actually experiencing and then choosing clear, healthy responses. Now, we know what you're probably thinking… …"I've done everything …

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187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1) 41:35

3M ago41:35

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What if every moment of blended family life felt fun, connected, and peaceful? It's pretty hard to imagine. We all know the struggles and challenges that barrage us each day. It might seem like there's way more discomfort and distress than there is fun and connection. We've navigated countless seasons of discomfort over the past couple of decades a…

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Simple Step: A Formula for Trust Building 9:04

3M ago9:04

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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us…

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186. How to Build an Atmosphere of Trust and Influence as a Stepfather [with Gil Stuart] 1:00:06

3M ago1:00:06

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Hey Stepdads — ever wonder if you're "winning or losing" in your role at home? Most stepdads I meet genuinely want to build trust with their stepkids and influence them toward success in life. But sometimes it feels like there's a bit too much chaos in the home — or you're not quite on the same page with your wife. The typical challenges of blendin…

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Simple Step: Where do you get sound advice? 11:35

3M ago11:35

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Join our Blending Together Community https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all …

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185. Overcome Isolation and Loneliness By Plugging Into a Supportive Community 29:12

4M ago29:12

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Have the challenges of blending a family ever left you feeling alone? Maybe you've felt like you're the only one experiencing the unique realities of blended family life. Maybe you're struggling with parenting complexities and your friends just don't get it. Or communication is tense in your couple relationship and your extended family can't seem t…

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Simple Step: Celebration and Support for Stepmoms 7:52

4M ago7:52

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Resources Check out our Blending Together Community Episode 157. 3 Seasoned Stepmoms Share How They've Survived & Thrived in Their Blended Family Journey Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybr…

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184. The Heart of Motherhood: Navigating Messy Moments with Empathy and Love 36:24

4M ago36:24

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Hey Moms and Stepmoms! As this episode drops, I'm betting that Mother's Day is on your radar. If you're anything like me (Kim), you're looking forward to being celebrated. But as wonderful as it is to be appreciated on Mother's Day, it might just feel like a drop in the bucket… …because being celebrated and appreciated on this one day of the year, …

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Simple Step: Build Your Parenting Partnership 9:32

4M ago9:32

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Ready to join the Blending Together Community? Just click this link to get started: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.…

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183. What's the difference between "coupleness" and "familyness" and why does it matter? 45:29

5M ago45:29

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Does it ever feel like you have a bit of a double life going? You have those moments when it's just you and your partner and it feels like all is right with the world… …but suddenly, when one or both sets of kids enter the scene — everything seems to fall apart! That's because when it comes to blended families, "coupleness" does NOT necessarily equ…

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Simple Step: Collaborative Family Leadership 9:08

5M ago9:08

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Resources: When you and your partner hit a leadership bump in the road and you're struggling to stay connected and communicate effectively, pause and honestly ask yourself these 3 questions: Am I really listening to my partner and affirming their perspective…or am I quick to disagree? Am I curious about what my partner might be experiencing…or have…

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182. How to Lead Your Blended Family with Intentionality and Courage [with Mike Haney] 1:04:42

5M ago1:04:42

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I (Mike) take leadership very seriously. One of my desires, even in our current empty nest years is to be the kind of family leader that my children and stepchild want to connect with and listen to. But often I feel overwhelmed or frustrated as I lead my blended family. All the complexities can lead to confusion that robs me of the confidence and c…

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Simple Step: What to do when you're alone with your step-kids 8:17

5M ago8:17

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Resource Episode 25. How to Survive Time Alone with Your Step-Kids Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along…

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181. Discover Insider Tips, Strategies, and Attitudes from One Dedicated Stepdad [with Special Guest Mike Haney] 1:14:23

6M ago1:14:23

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Stepdads need courage! Navigating all the complexities, confusion, and common frustrations is not for the faint-hearted. But it's not just courage stepdad's need, they also need community. Sure, lots of guys operate as if they can fix the challenges, untangle the complexities, and "be the hero" on their own — but most experience relief and reassura…

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Simple Step: The ONE Thing You Can do to Blend with Success 9:28

6M ago9:28

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Resources Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz: https://form.typeform.com/to/DSz44d52?typeform-source=www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com Book: Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal Book: Building Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal and Gary Chapman CLICK HERE to join the waitlist for upcoming membership to our Blending Together community Smart Stepfa…

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180. Break free from Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and Security 38:18

6M ago38:18

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Have you ever felt like you were stuck in an emotional minefield? For many couples, when a sense of guilt creeps in, it can be debilitating. They might want to move toward blending but find themselves trapped in a minefield of guilt and regret. I (Kim) stayed stuck in my own personal minefield of guilt for way too long. It impacted every area of my…

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179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and Clarity 34:56

6M ago34:56

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Fear is often driven by the unknown… …and it's no surprise that many couples struggle with all the unknown factors of blending. Ambiguity is simply part of the blending journey. All the ambiguity can quickly lead to fear: fear of what might happen if blending doesn't go well fear of failing. fear of how the kids might react fear of the impact of an…

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Simple Step: Technology Tips for Teens 9:48

7M ago9:48

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Resources Episode 178. Surviving the Turbulent Teen Years: Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent - with Special Guest, Dr. Michael Bradley Book: Crazy-Stressed by Dr. Michael J. Bradley Episode 70. 5 Simple Ingredients for Healthy Tech Habits with Your Kids — with Special Guest, Rob Hayes-St. Clair Episode 20: 4 Big Myths About Parenting…

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178. Surviving the Turbulent Teen Years: Expert Insight and Strategies for Today's Parent [With Dr. Michael Bradley] 1:15:12

7M ago1:15:12

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Ever felt like your teen is completely crazy or maybe you feel like the crazy one — you're not alone! Raising teens is not for the faint-hearted parent or stepparent. But what if this "crazy" season doesn't have to be filled with fear or anger? What if you could find practical ways to hold boundaries, stay connected, and experience a little peace e…

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Simple Step: Meeting Our Partner's Deepest Need 11:23

7M ago11:23

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Resources Article: How to Cherish Your Spouse - 10 Ways Book by Gary Chapman: The 5 Love Languages Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We a…

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177. Unleash the Power of Friendship This Valentines Day and Beyond 52:06

7M ago52:06

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Do you remember that vibrant sense of friendship you had early on in your relationship — the strong connection that created an irresistible longing just to be with each other? Isn't it crazy how the packed schedules, complex relationships, and differences of perspective, take you from irresistible to irritated in no time flat! It might leave you fe…

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176. Uncover Your Relationship Style and Gain Hopeful Insights From Our Journey 39:42

7M ago39:42

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Do you ever think about your romantic relationship now compared to what you'd really like to experience as a couple? If you ever wonder (or even feel hopeless) about how to make progress, you're in the right place today. Research reveals five different Relationship Styles based on a combination of things like communication habits, conflict resoluti…

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Simple Step: Keeping Kids Out of the Middle 10:15

8M ago10:15

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Resources for this Simple Step: Episode 175. 8 Tips to Protect Kids From Stress and Tension When Moving Between Homes Episode 7. Toxic Exes and Hurting Kids - 5 Steps That Help Episode 8. Toxic Exes and Defiant Kids - A Simple Strategy Against Lies and Slander Episode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids Episode 42. Our Challen…

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175. 8 Tips to Protect Kids From Stress and Tension When Moving Between Homes 41:29

8M ago41:29

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Children moving between two homes WANT one thing — to be connected to the people they love. And what they NEED most is to experience peace and freedom to simply enjoy time spent with each of their parents. This might seem simple, but many kids don't get what they want or need due to unhealthy co-parenting patterns. Most often, that leads to unneces…

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Simple Step: Effective Dialog with Tweens & Teens 8:41

8M ago8:41

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Resources for this episode Episode 174. How to Raise Confident Kids by Building a Solid Foundation for Success in Life [with Special Guest Nellie Harden] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybr…

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174. How to Raise Confident Kids by Building a Solid Foundation for Success in Life [with Special Guest Nellie Harden] 1:07:02

8M ago1:07:02

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You want to raise kids who are equipped for success in life, right? You want them to have confidence, a sense of esteem, and worth. But this can feel like an unattainable goal in a world constantly sending mixed messages. Maybe you've felt hopeless when you add in the wake of complex family dynamics and trauma that may have occurred in your family …

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Simple Step: Turning Setbacks into Real Growth 10:25

9M ago10:25

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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us…

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173. Expert Guidance for Holiday Success 49:23

9M ago49:23

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You want to experience a little holiday magic and meaningful connection in your blended family, right? But the challenges and tensions that emerge for blended families during the holiday season often rob us of the bonding experience we're hoping for. High expectations, difficult emotions, and logistical complications seem to bombard everyone — part…

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Simple Step: The Unpredictable Parenting Style 8:06

9M ago8:06

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Episode Resources: Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United Parenting Style Quiz: What's Your Parenting Style? Book: Parenting with Love and Logic Book: Parenting Teens with Love and Logic Book: Stepparenting: Keeping it Sane (Love and Logic) Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to disc…

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172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences — And Get United 52:15

9M ago52:15

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Does it feel like your partner's parenting style is impossibly different than yours? You really want to get on the same page, but your different approaches to parenting seem to rob you of the unity you're looking for. Maybe you find yourself in a cycle of conflict about parenting and it seems like you'll never find your way out. We felt the same wa…

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Simple Step: Break Free From "Perfectionistic" Holiday Ideals 12:23

10M ago12:23

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Resources from this Episode Article by Nick Wignall: What Causes Perfectionism and How to Get Over It Episode 84. How to Cope with Sadness, Anxiety and Longing While Your Kids are Gone Episode 81. How a Missing Bio-Parent Impacts Kids in the Delicate Blending Process (Part 1 of 2) Episode 168. Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Diff…

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171. How to Experience More Fun, Connection, and Joy this Holiday Season [with Rich and Stacy] 52:26

10M ago52:26

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Have you ever felt like the holidays in your blended family are fraught with more challenges than there should be? It might seem like when the holidays hit, you get bombarded with chaotic schedules and difficult negotiations with Exes. The kids have high expectations and so do you — which just adds to the pressure. Relational tension and stress see…

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Simple Step: How to Improve Co-Parenting 7:57

10M ago7:57

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As I mentioned in this Simple Step, we encourage you to head back to Episode 67 to dive into more ideas on how to live out this simple strategy in your co-parenting dynamic. Here's the link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/podcast/067 Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question…

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