017 - Transformative Dialogues in a Father-Daughter Relationship with Yvonne Caputo

Our Dead Dads

What if the bond between a father and daughter could only be forged through years of emotional distance and transformative conversations? Join us as Yvonne Caputo, semi-retired author of "Flying with Dad" and "Dying with Dad," unveils the poignant journey of her relationship with her father. Yvonne opens up about their challenging yet ultimately rewarding emotional connection, sharing heartwarming anecdotes and hints of her future writing projects. Through her story, Yvonne illustrates the profound role that community support and open discussions play in navigating grief, loss, and trauma.
As we continue to explore family dynamics, Yvonne takes us back to her childhood, recounting a memorable fishing trip that marked the beginning of her quest to win her father’s approval. From heated arguments in her early years to a transformative dialogue in her 30s, Yvonne’s journey is a testament to the power of understanding and patience. We dive deep into a wartime story involving her father that highlights the importance of end-of-life decisions, such as advanced directives and the "Five Wishes" document, and their impact on family dynamics.
Finally, as a psychotherapist, Yvonne brings her professional perspective on grieving complex relationships. She emphasizes the necessity of processing grief through therapeutic means and the comfort that grief groups can offer. Yvonne also shares her insights from working in a retirement community, where open discussions about death have shaped her approach. The episode concludes with a lighthearted Q&A session, offering a glimpse into Yvonne’s personal life and her delightful Bernadoodle. Join us for this heartfelt episode of Our Dead Dads, and discover how sharing our stories can pave the way for a more meaningful grieving process.
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1. 017 - Transformative Dialogues in a Father-Daughter Relationship with Yvonne Caputo (00:00:00)

2. Normalizing Grief and Trauma Through Stories (00:00:02)

3. Reconnecting Through War Stories (00:11:32)

4. A Father's End-of-Life Decisions (00:24:37)

5. Exploring Family Relationships and Stories (00:37:51)

6. Navigating Grief Through Therapy (00:48:58)

7. End-of-Life Interview (01:01:44)

8. Forging Path Without Father's Guidance (01:11:23)