A podcast for conscious parents who drop the f-bomb. A lot. We are the overthinkers, the dreamers, and the doers. We are parenting in a radically different way than those before us. But our divine vision gets blurry cause...OMG...kids can be such a pain in the ass. Let's work from the inside out, in a whole brain, whole body way to mitigate the crappy behavior. Not just with our kids but with ourselves. So you can be the parent you envision.
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208: Light Hearted Holiday Stories (do not listen in the presence of kids)
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This week on Oh Crap Parenting, we're having some fun as we close out the year with lighthearted holiday stories and a few important reminders for next season. From navigating tricky Santa conversations to avoiding the trap of over-the-top traditions like Elf on the Shelf (trust me, I dug myself a deep hole with rhyming advent scavenger hunts!), I’…
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207: The Surgeon General: Parenting May Be Hazardous to Your Health
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In this week’s episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I dive into the Surgeon General's recent warning that parenting is hazardous to your health—especially your mental health. I unpack the two major crises we’re all grappling with: a time crisis and a self-care crisis. From the pressure of hyper-vigilant, intensive parenting to the guilt that keeps us trap…
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206: Staying Sane During the Holidays
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In this heartfelt and reflective episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I share how I stay grounded through the chaos of the holiday season while looking back on the fleeting early years of parenting. I talk candidly about the mix of joy and nostalgia that comes with watching my son Pascal grow up and offer a mix of practical advice and emotional insight t…
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205: Top 3 Things for Peaceful Holidays with Kids
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In this week’s episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I’m sharing my top three tips for a peaceful holiday season with kids. From keeping your little ones well-fed before the big meal to avoiding power struggles over holiday food, I’ve got you covered. I talk about the magic of leaving gatherings on a high note (instead of waiting until they’re melting down…
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204: The Problems with Gentle Parenting
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In this episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I’m breaking down what’s really going wrong with “gentle parenting” and why so many parents feel like it doesn’t work. The idea behind gentle parenting was never about giving in or being permissive—it’s about being responsive without letting every big feeling run the show. I talk about co-regulation, validating…
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203: A Few Things NOT to Say to Your Kids
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In this episode, we tackle a phrase we all know too well: "Use your words!" But here’s the thing—our kids don’t always have the words, especially when they’re melting down. I talk about why expecting kids to verbalize their feelings during a tantrum can set us all up for frustration, and how we can better understand what’s really going on beneath t…
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202: Boundaries vs Rules
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In this episode, I’m breaking down the key differences between boundaries and rules, showing how each plays a unique role in guiding your child's behavior and emotional growth. Rules provide clear instructions—like screen time limits or mealtime guidelines—while boundaries create the framework where kids can explore and understand limits with some …
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201: The Gift of Failure
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In this episode, I dive into the incredibly important concept of giving our kids the gift of failure. Inspired by Jessica Lahey’s book, The Gift of Failure, I explore how allowing our kids to fail, take risks, and have unstructured time builds resilience and independence—something they desperately need in today’s overscheduled world. We talk about …
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200: Yet a Little More About Family Meals
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I have more to say about the importance of family meals and how to make them work for your family, this week. It's all about aligning your values, finding a routine that fits your life, and most importantly, creating connection after a long day apart. Whether it's shifting dinner times, understanding your child's needs, or redefining what family me…
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199: Simplifying Family Meals
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Digital Canner I’m breaking down how to simplify family mealtime without sacrificing nutrition or sanity. We’re talking about the importance of looking at your kids' nutrition over the span of several days rather than stressing about every single meal. I’m sharing my go-to tips for meal prepping, like using rotisserie chicken to whip up easy and he…
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198: Where's Your Daily Friction?
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Today, I tackle one of the biggest challenges we face: balancing work and home life, especially when working from home. I dive into the friction points that can trip up our daily routines—like those chaotic mornings or stressful mealtimes—and how to design a family life that works for you, not against you. By identifying these "hot spots" and makin…
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197: Circadian Rhythms, Blue Light and Seasonal Eating with Sarah Kleiner
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This week, I’m joined by Sarah Kleiner, a Quantum Health Coach and expert in circadian and quantum biology, to dive into how our bodies' natural rhythms affect everything from sleep to energy levels and overall health. We talk about optimizing circadian rhythms, balancing hormones through small lifestyle shifts, and why seasonal eating can make suc…
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196: After School Restraint Collapse and Writing Practice
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Today, I tackle a topic that’s been causing quite a stir in many households: After-School Restraint Collapse. You know, that moment when your little one comes home from school and just melts down after holding it all together all day? It’s a real thing, and it’s hitting kindergarteners, first graders, and second graders hard. In this episode, I sha…
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In Episode 195 of the Oh Crap Parenting Podcast, I address what might be the most important topic we’ve covered to date: the impact of parental exhaustion and the crucial need for connection with our kids. Lately, I’ve been seeing more and more behavioral issues—meltdowns, out-of-control behavior, even potty training setbacks—and I believe it all b…
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In this episode, I dive deep into the ways our phones and constant digital distractions are leading us straight to burnout, affecting not just our own mental health but our parenting too. Inspired by a recent Mel Robbins podcast, I explore how excessive screen time floods our brains with dopamine, making it harder for us—and our kids—to tolerate bo…
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193: Balancing Family Life: Interview with Chantel Zimmerman
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In today's episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Chantel Zimmerman, founder of a forest school in New Jersey and a passionate advocate for nature-based learning. We delve into Chantel's philosophy of prioritizing the parenting process over the outcome, emphasizing the importance of being present and mindful throughout the journey. Chantel s…
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In this deeply personal episode, I open up about the recent passing of my mom and the profound journey of grief that follows. Losing a parent is a transformative experience, and I candidly share the layers of grief, the emotional rollercoaster, and the societal discomfort around death that I’ve encountered. Reflecting on my mom’s complex medical hi…
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191: Let's Talk About Inside Out 2!
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I’m diving into Inside Out 2 to unpack how the film mirrors the teenage experience. We’ll explore the role of sarcasm, the depiction of belief systems and anxiety, and how these elements resonate with real-life adolescent emotions. I’ll share insights on managing emotional volatility, the importance of building a strong connection with your teen be…
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190: Everything You Wanted to Know About Our Periods
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Hey you guys! Today, I sit down with the incredible Anna Sneed, known as "the period lady" for her expertise in menstrual cycle education. Anna is a dedicated empowerment and life coach who passionately believes in the importance of body literacy and understanding menstrual cycles as the "red thread" that connects us all. Together, we dive into the…
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Hey friends! I'm seeing a lot of people online talk about "slow summers" and "creating summer memories" with their kids and I wanted to share my perspective on this topic. We're talking about the magic of creating memorable and restful summers for our kids, even when work commitments keep us busy. We'll explore the benefits of traditional camps and…
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188: What Montessori REALLY is: interview with Jeanne-Marie Paynel
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In this episode, I sit down with Jeanne-Marie Paynel, founder of Your Parenting Mentor and host of the Art of Parenting podcast, to dive deep into what Montessori education truly entails. Jeanne-Marie, a master of education and an experienced Montessori consultant, explains the core principles of Montessori, focusing on child-driven learning, freed…
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187: The Love Umbrella: Let's Talk About Relationships
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Hey, hey! Today, I dive into the dynamics of relationships and how they form a "love umbrella" that shields the entire family. I talk about how power imbalances in marriages impact co-parenting and family unity. We explore the significance of addressing postpartum depression, the influence of parental behavior on children's emotional development, a…
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Today we're talking about the art of apologizing, especially with our kids. Apologies aren't just about saying "sorry" – they’re about making amends and truly repairing relationships. I'll talk about the key components of a genuine apology, like taking responsibility, expressing real remorse, and listening to the other person's perspective. We'll d…
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185: Core Memories Are BS
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Hey you guys! Today, we're talking core memories, popularized by the Pixar movie Inside Out, and discuss how this idea, while engaging, is not based in science. I caution against the societal pressure parents may feel to create these "perfect" memories, emphasizing that true core memories are formed from the emotional connections behind everyday mo…
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184: Pathological Demand Avoidance
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In this episode, I dive into the complex world of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), a subtype of autism spectrum disorder characterized by extreme avoidance of social demands and anxiety-driven meltdowns. We'll explore the nuances of PDA, how it manifests in children, and why it often goes unrecognized in traditional autism screenings. I’ll shar…
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183: Seeing Through Your Child's Lens
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Hey, hey, you guys! I dive into the importance of seeing the world through our children's eyes. We start by discussing the magical perspective children have on nature walks, where every creek and puddle is an adventure. Then, I share a personal story about how my son's fascination with trains led us to hours of joy at the train station, highlightin…
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Today's a short one from the archives! We're diving into the tricky world of timed warnings for kids. Ever told your little one, "We're leaving in 30 minutes," only to be met with resistance or outright dismissal? You're not alone! In this episode, I break down why these warnings can backfire and how to use them effectively. We'll talk about settin…
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181: Empowering Parents as Language Facilitators with Marci Melzer
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Hey, hey, you guys! This episode originally aired on Patreon March 4, 2021 but I wanted to reshare it her because I get questions on kiddos and speech all of the time. I’m so excited to have a special guest with us today who is going to address many of the questions you have been submitting about your kids and their speech development. Marci Melzer…
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180: Navigating Toddler Sleep with Jessica Berk
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In this episode, I'm joined by sleep expert Jessica Berk from @awesomelittlesleepers to dive deep into the world of toddler sleep. We're tackling everything from maintaining boundaries in parenting to handling transition periods and adjusting sleep training for older kids. With Jessica's expertise and my own experiences, we explore setting time lim…
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179: We're Messing It Up
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I'm back with another truth bomb. Parents, we are messing it up. Today, I'm covering preparing young adults for financial independence and the negative impact of over-parenting. I emphasize the importance of allowing kids to navigate challenges independently, fostering resilience, and self-sufficiency. By striking a balance between old-school and m…
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178: All About Magnesium with Dr. Barb
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Today, we are entering the world of magnesium with Dr. Barb Woegerer! Dr. Barb Woegerer, a naturopathic doctor based in Vaughan, Ontario, Canada, specializes in women's health, stress management, and inflammatory conditions, with a key emphasis on the role of magnesium in overall health and wellness, especially in treating constipation. Together, w…
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177: Let's Talk About Eye Rolling
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Hey, hey, you guys! Today, I dive into the complexities of teaching personal accountability and navigating eye rolling behavior in children and teenagers. Sharing some anecdotes, I explore strategies for instilling accountability in kids through modeling behavior and addressing disrespectful actions like eye rolling. From understanding the challeng…
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We're diving into the intricate world of sibling dynamics. From observing the natural pecking order among siblings to navigating conflicts and fostering healthy relationships, I explore the complexities parents face in nurturing sibling bonds. Drawing parallels to the pecking order among chicks, I stress the inevitability of sibling hierarchies and…
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Hey! Today, we delve into the rhythm and routine of parenting, exploring how consistency and circadian biology play vital roles in creating stability for both parents and children. From establishing bedtime rituals to navigating the infamous "witching hour," I provide practical insights and strategies to help parents maintain sanity and structure a…
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174: Tiny Dictators and Parental Preference
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Today, we're talking "Tiny Dictators" and parental preferences, exploring how organization and setting boundaries play a crucial role in managing these challenges. From establishing designated spots for everyday items to navigating children's preferences for one parent over another, I offer practical insights and strategies to maintain authority wh…
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173: Revisiting Tantrums
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We're revisiting tantrums today! From understanding the root causes to managing those intense emotions, we're covering it all. Learn how to navigate the tantrum arc, support your child through meltdowns, and distinguish between typical behavior and manipulative tactics. Plus, I talk about what's coming up in my new parenting community, Oh Crap! Caf…
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172: Mom Guilt About Our Kids' Emotional States
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Today, we're talking about the intricacies of managing emotional states of our kids with a focus on nurturing emotional intelligence and resilience in children. From acknowledging and validating their feelings to providing tools for emotional navigation, we explore how parents can create a supportive environment where kids feel understood and empow…
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171: When Kids Say They Can't Do Something and We Know They CAN
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You know the drill. Your kid can totally dress themselves and then suddenly they have a meltdown getting dressed because suddenly they can't. Today, we'll discuss this phenomenon through the lens of the typical morning rush. From helping children get dressed to managing their resistance to activities, it's all about finding the delicate balance bet…
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170: Internal and External Locus of Control
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Hey! Today we're talking about the concept of internal and external locus of control and its profound implications for parenting and personal well-being. Together, we'll explore how reframing parenting responsibilities from "I have to" to "I get to" can bring a sense of gratitude and joy to our daily tasks, deepening our connection with the role of…
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169: The Importance of Play with Peter Gray
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Discover why play is essential for your child's growth, from enhancing cognitive development to fostering social skills. Today, I'm joined by Dr. Peter Gray, a research professor at Boston College specializing in psychology and neuroscience, who has dedicated his career to understanding the value of play in children's lives. He is a founding member…
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168: Meeting Sensory Needs
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We're diving into the importance of addressing sensory needs in children through specific physical activities. Understanding and meeting the sensory needs of our children is crucial for their overall well-being and development, regardless of whether they have specific sensory processing challenges. From sensory bins filled with rice or pompoms to c…
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167: When Kids are Hard on Themselves Part 2
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Hey guys! In today's fast-paced world, nurturing our children's self-esteem and emotional resilience is more important than ever. In this episode, I dive deep into the dangers of seeking constant external validation and the impact of academic pressure on children's mental health. It's essential for parents to recognize the signs of a nervous learne…
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166: Naps and Sleep Consistency with Erica Desper
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Erica's Website: https://www.centerforconfidentparenting.org/ Hey! Today, we dove into the essential topic of establishing solid sleep routines for our little ones. Joined by the insightful Erica Desper, we talked all things consistency, understanding your child's unique temperament, figuring out the right bedtime, and how light and activity impact…
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165: When Kids are Hard on Themselves Part 1
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In my latest podcast episode, I'm tackling self-berating behavior in our kiddos, especially around ages five to seven. I break it down with practical insights and strategies to help you navigate this challenging phase. One key tip is differentiating between attention-seeking behavior and more serious concerns. I reassure you that sudden self-deprec…
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Hey, hey, you guys. Today, I'm opening up about a real parenting moment - you know, the kind we all face! Join me as I share a personal story of a repair moment with my teenage son, Pascal. We're diving deep into the challenges of effective communication and adaptation in parenting. Parenting is a constant learning curve, and even experts like me m…
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163: Capacity and Me Falling Apart
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This week, we're diving into a topic close to my heart – managing capacity and setting boundaries for productivity. As we wade through the chaos of December and beyond, I share my personal journey of finding balance and offer tips to help you navigate busy times effectively. From breaking down projects into bite-sized tasks to reconsidering our rel…
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162: Gut Health and Raising Healthy Eaters: A Conversation with Kate Pope aka the Wild Nutritionist
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Hey, parents! In our latest episode of "Oh Crap Parenting," I had the pleasure of chatting with the incredible Kate Pope, aka the Wild Nutritionist. We dug deep into the world of regenerative nutrition and gut health, unraveling the impact of what we eat on our well-being. Kate's passion for nutrient-dense foods and a healthy gut microbiome is down…
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161: Revolutionizing Perinatal Mental Health with Sarah Oreck, MD
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Today, we're talking with the incredible Dr. Sarah Oreck. Dr. Sarah is a Columbia-trained psychiatrist and the visionary behind Mavida Health, an organization striving to revolutionize mental health care for individuals on their parenthood journey. Sarah's perspective on challenges and support in women's health and perinatal care is shaped by her k…
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160: Reparenting: Healing Childhood Wounds for Effective Parenting
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Join me and the incredible Erica Litzner, a parent, a long time listener, and patron on Patreon, in a deep dive into the rollercoaster world of parenting in our latest podcast episode. We're tackling the nitty-gritty of effective parenting, from the importance of self-care (yes, YOU matter) to understanding the profound impact of childhood trauma o…
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159: Secure Connections: An Attachment Deep Dive with Eli Hardwood
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We've got a fantastic episode lined up with a special guest in the house – Eli Hardwood, AKA the Attachment Nerd. Eli's not just a therapist and mama; she's the guru when it comes to all things attachment theory. In this episode, we're getting real about attachment parenting. Eli breaks down the four attachment patterns, spills the beans on breakin…
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