A Lifetime of Pursuing Post-WWII Dreams in the Shadow of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict with a focus on Lebanon.

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Growing Up Amidst Tension

In this opening, I explore my upbringing in Lebanon, where animosity between Lebanese and Palestinians cast a long shadow. The conflict's impact on my personal life and relationships sets the stage for the narrative.

A Family's Unique Story

I delve into my family history, marked by my Christian Palestinian mother and my Lebanese father. Despite their love, their union faced resistance, offering a unique perspective on the complexities of identity and belonging.

The Spark of Conflict

The year 1975 signifies the start of the Lebanese war and my birth. I provide historical context and investigate the role Palestinians played in the outbreak of the conflict, igniting the tensions.

Ain al-Rummaneh and the Escalation

I examine the tragic incident of April 13, 1975, in Ain al-Rummaneh. It serves as a turning point, escalating violence and sectarian conflicts throughout Lebanon.

The Phalangists and Sabra/Shatila

The Phalangists, a Christian militia, become embroiled in armed clashes, including the infamous Sabra and Shatila massacre in 1982. I discuss the controversial role they played during the civil war.

Us Versus Them - The Endless Cycle

The ongoing blame game between different sides in the conflict takes a toll on me, and I reflect on the divisive narratives on social media and personal connections.

Post-WWII Dreams and Palestinian Displacement

I delve into the aftermath of World War II, highlighting the suffering of the Jewish people and the tragic displacement of the Palestinian people since 1948, despite their differing roles in the conflict.

The Life of a Palestinian Refugee

I share my mother's story as a Palestinian refugee, detailing the enduring hardships, the stripping of basic rights, and the pursuit of a better life.

A Legacy of Conflict

I circle back to the ongoing Israeli-Palestinian conflict and its impact on Israel and the Middle East, the enduring influence of world leaders and the growth of extremism.

Lessons from the Past

I reflect on the wisdom gained while growing up in the midst of conflict and its relevance to more recent events, such as 9/11 and the war on terror.

75 Years of Palestinian Suffering

I emphasise the price paid by Palestinians since the Nakba in 1948 and the ongoing suffering. I also explore my personal worry about my mother's well-being in uncertain times.

Contrasting Lives - Europe and Lebanon

I compare my life in Europe with the challenges faced by family members in Lebanon. I express gratitude for my freedom and a vigilant outlook toward challenges.

A Father's Voice and the Ongoing Conflict

I conclude with my reflection on my father's reactions to the news in the '80s and '90s. I acknowledge the persistence of the conflict and its impact on Lebanon.

Hope for a Brighter Future

I close with my message of hope for peace, understanding, and reconciliation, urging both sides to move beyond the past.

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