108: Use the No-Man Diet to Self-Integrate, Unpack Old Patterns, Embody. Eurydice Eve w Kendra Cunov

Speak with Eve Eurydice

Eurydice speaks with Kendra on life, love, and her No-Man-Diet intestive. Who is I in Nature and Who is I in the World? Natural and Unnatural are more accurate definitions than right and wrong. But again do we know what’s natural and unnatural? After 6000 years of rewarding and prioritizing the unnatural? Integration is the goal. Our culture is still a patriarchy because our patterns and our meanings are stuck in the old patriarchy which teaches us to live split in half. Getting our self worth from external sources is one of the hooks that old culture has in us. In patriarchy we learn identity and language as a division (split) of ourselves: who we are told we are (our identities) and who we feel we are (our bodies) and the two become further and further removed so by the time we become sexual beings in puberty, when our bodies change? It becomes harder to know what our bodies say and pick up and alert us on, so a lot of our living becomes performative. We lose access to authentic reasons and so we behave to cultural reasons in order to get social reactions. We take advantage of our body as if it were a marionette or a puppet to get things we need from culture: work money approval success which is how our living becomes performative & that’s our chronic pattern now so it’s hard to switch out of cultural desire because self-objectification is culturally ingrained. How do we harmonize our body and mind, our nature and culture? Self integration is a warrior challenge. Syncing up ourselves is a worthy challenge. Kendra Cunov is a life coach who practices Circling in the Authentic SF community. She facilitates the No Man Diet (12 weeks of no dating) and the Beyond Boundaries practices. For more on Kendra & her work, go to https://kendracunov.com⚡️For more podcast, go to https://Speakwitheve.com ⚡️For books, art, merch by Eurydice, go to https://Eurydice.net ⚡️ For in-depth writing, go to https://Eurydice.substack.com ⚡️For the Apple podcast, subscribe to https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speak-sex-with-eve/id1448261953 ⚡️For our video episodes, go to https://YouTube.com/SpeakSexwithEveEurydice and subscribe! Support Eurydice at at https://anchor.fm/speaksex/support?ref=radiopublic