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A Fork, A Precipice, A Decision 24:42

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Episode Notes [01:14] Unexpected Email from Employer [05:49] The Deferred Resignation Program [06:34] Initial Reactions and Concerns [08:01] Evaluating the Offer [08:21] Enhanced Standards of Conduct [08:55] Personal Reflections and Concerns [12:21] Seeking Advice and Making a Decision [13:01] Option One: Do Not Resign [14:56] Option Two: Resign [16:44] Insights from Conversations [21:30] Making The Decision [23:51] Final Thoughts and Gratitude Resources Mentioned Sebastian Junger The Soul of Shame by Curt Thompson Donald Trump Elon Musk Steve Bannon Russell Vought Derek Sivers Sumner Crenshaw Brian Fretwell at Finding Good Chad Littlefield The Thought Leaders Practice by Matt Church Simon Cowell Beauty Pill Producer Ben Ford Questions Asked Is it legitimate, and can it be trusted? How are you feeling? What questions come to your mind? Where does your mind go? Are you seeking safety? Would this have been an adrenaline rush as you raced to send the resignation response? What an "enhanced standard" regarding loyalty and trustworthiness was? What are these new "enhanced standards?" Are they beyond what my Constitutional oath requires? If I don't resign, how bright will the target on my back glow? My leadership has supported all my work, but would termination direction come from higher up the chain of command? What would you recommend if we talked over coffee? What questions would you ask? How would you use listening? How would you use silence? How is this scenario playing out in your mind and body? What is coming to the surface for you? How might that influence what you are about to say to me? What are the chances of my name popping on a list and getting fired? How about the chances of being part of an official Reduction in Force and early retirement? Would the administration make a better offer? What do I know about the pending job market? What did I expect the workplace to be like and did I want to be there as the contractions took place? Will the administration pay me through the end of September or will they renege? Can I sufficiently build the Curated Questions business to transition by 1 October? - Do I have the faith or confidence to step into this future as a sole practitioner and grow Curated Questions into all I envisioned? Was this purpose calling? What would I expect the job market to look like at the end of summer if I hadn't developed the income streams to maintain our lifestyle? What is your recommendation? Did it change from your initial recommendation? Where in your body are you feeling the uncertainty? Are you processing this scenario in parallel with your decision as if you had received the email? What additional questions should I have considered? Who else should I have consulted with? How would you have changed my risk rating? What is the correct length of the pregnant pause before making an important announcement? What processes would you use in my circumstance, and what would be different? What questions are at the top of your list to get to a decision? Who would be the members of your pantheon you would counsel with to gain clarity? Apart from the heady analysis, what other key practices would you include in your journey through a similar situation?…

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45: The Failed Q&A Episode 26:52

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We attempt a Q&A episode with various fake questions that lead us into a conversation about gardening, narcissism, and self-discovery. This the last episode of the season! 😭 If you want more info about the Neurotic Tornado 😫🌪podcast, check out the podcast home page (link) . And if you want more info about my new novel, check out I Only Cry with Emoticons on my website (link) .…

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44: Stage Fright, Book Launches, and Other Nightmares 38:01

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With my new novel launching on June 7th, we discuss stage fright, the book launch experience, and my nightmares about peeing. We also give Jackie Shannon Hollis a call (17 minutes into the show). She hosted this show in seasons 2 & 3, and released a fabulous memoir in 2019: This Particular Happiness (link) . If you want more info about the Neurotic Tornado 😫🌪podcast, check out the podcast home page (link) . And if you want more info about my new novel, check out I Only Cry with Emoticons on my website (link) .…

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43: The Depression and Anxiety Episode 32:12

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We discuss my relationship to depression and anxiety over the years. Turns out that I used to date depression but now I'm hooking up with anxiety. So... yay??? To get more info about depression and anxiety: Tell Me All I Need to Know About Depression (Psycom.net link) Depression Definition and DSM-5 Diagnostic Criteria (Psycom.net link) How Can I Get Help for Depression? (Healthline.com link) Tell Me All I Need to Know About Anxiety (Psycom.net link) Do You Live with Anxiety? Here Are 11 Ways to Cope (Healthline.com link) If you want more info about the Neurotic Tornado 😫🌪podcast, check out the podcast home page (link) . And if you want more info about my new novel, check out I Only Cry with Emoticons on my website (link) .…

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42: Pain Scale from 1 to Fuchsia 31:32

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I suffer from chronic migraines. Every week I have to work through the ups and downs of how I feel. In this episode, my wife and I talk about how we manage our lives alongside my chronic pain. For some context, here are two YouTube videos I made about chronic pain: The Pain in My Head : the story of my chronic headaches Writing Through Pain : how I remain a chronic creator even with chronic pain Also, in the episode we reference the Spoon Theory (coined by writer Christine Miserandino). To learn more about this helpful metaphor, check out her original blog post (from 2003!). If you want more info about the Neurotic Tornado 😫🌪podcast, check out the podcast home page (link) . And if you want more info about my new novel, check out I Only Cry with Emoticons on my website (link) .…

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41: Spiral of Foreboding 25:46

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We discuss my overactive sense of dread and foreboding, and why my sense of object permanence is only slightly better than a baby's. If you want more info about the Neurotic Tornado 😫🌪podcast, check out the podcast home page (link) . And if you want more info about my new novel, check out I Only Cry with Emoticons on my website (link) .…

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40: I'm My Obsession 39:22

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Welcome back to the podcast after a long hiatus! In this episode, my wife visits me up in the attic to talk about obsessive thinking, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), and why I'm capable of re-reading an already-sent email 87 times. Related links: Measuring Obsessive-Compulsive Symptoms: Common Tools and Techniques (website) Obsessive Concerns Checklist (PDF) Compulsive Activities Checklist (PDF) If you want more info about the Neurotic Tornado 😫🌪podcast, check out the podcast home page (link) . And if you want more info about my new novel, check out I Only Cry with Emoticons on my website (link) .…

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Season 4 Prep: The Catastrophizer (Episode 39) 35:14

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So I brought my wife on the show again after a FOUR-year hiatus to check-in about... relationshippy things. And then I lost the episode for THREE years. And so now, after a SEVEN-year hiatus, my wife and I talk about our marriage, and her counseling, and my ability to catastrophize. To those of you who are heroically still subscribed, I hope you enjoy this one-off episode. ❤️️ For more info about the podcast, check out the podcast home page .…

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S3-38: Very much our space 23:57

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We conclude the Beyond Coupled season. We talk through what we learned. And we share an exciting update about Ben... We loved doing this season; we’re so appreciative that you joined us; we appreciate the honesty of the crew we interviewed; we’re even appreciative of the semicolon. But now we need to take a nap.…

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S3-37: The beautiful messiness 21:28

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We dig a little more into the nature of their relationship. Some things we can immediately identify with, and some things we have to talk through...

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S3-36: Defining the relationship 23:42

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In this podcast episode, Nikki, Ben, and Stevan start to define their relationship now that everything is out in the open. If you're just tuning in, be sure to go back to episode 31 for the beginning of the season: It was a good marriage, but...

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S3-35: They go to therapy 25:42

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We go with Nikki, Ben, and Stevan to therapy. This is the first therapy session with all of them at the table together. Find out what happens!......

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S3-34: An upended fishbowl 26:56

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We finally check in with Ben (the husband!) to find out how he learned about his wife's affair, and how he began processing it. Whew. Heavy stuff....

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S3-33: Preparing the ground 25:52

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In this episode, we listen to Stevan and Nikki talk about their continuing affair. At this point, the affair is still a secret, but Nikki is preparing to tell her husband. I don't know about you, but I'm already starting to get chest pains...

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S3-32: How an affair begins 22:43

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In this episode, we meet Stevan. He is recently divorced when he meets Nikki, a married woman in a not-completely-happy marriage. Find out what happens next.

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S3-31: It was a good marriage, but… 27:55

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In this episode, we begin our quest into this season's relationship. Meet Nikki. She was mostly happy in her marriage, but there was one thing missing. Listen to the episode to find out what she was looking for...

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