How to Break Free from Financial Fawning | Queer Money Ep. 538

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What is financial fawning and why do I need to be cautious about it?

In this episode of the Queer Money® Podcast, David and John share a personal story of feeling compelled to make a significant donation despite financial constraints. The story leads the two into an interview with writer and personal finance educator Jackie Lam, who discusses the challenges of balancing financial expectations, and community and family obligations with personal financial goals. The three discuss the concept of 'financial fawning,' setting boundaries for charitable giving, and creating a budget that accommodates both planned and spontaneous generosity. Jackie also shares her personal journey of addressing cultural and familial pressures while working towards her goal of semi-retirement in her 50s.

Topics Covered on financial fawning

• A Night at the LGBTQ Event
• Introducing Jackie Lam
• The Pressure to Help Family
• Cultural and Familial Expectations
• Financial Fawning and Personal Boundaries
• Balancing Generosity and Financial Goals
• The Invisible Pain of Financial Struggles
• Personal Finance and Hidden Wealth
• Understanding Financial Anxiety
• Generosity and Financial Boundaries
• Planned and Spontaneous Giving
• Community and Personal Joy
• Conclusion and Contact Information

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