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109. Why Dating Should Be a Part-Time Job – Insights from Narelle Sheehan

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Inhoud geleverd door Cinthia Varkevisser & Michelle Walters, Cinthia Varkevisser, and Michelle Walters. Alle podcastinhoud, inclusief afleveringen, afbeeldingen en podcastbeschrijvingen, wordt rechtstreeks geüpload en geleverd door Cinthia Varkevisser & Michelle Walters, Cinthia Varkevisser, and Michelle Walters of hun podcastplatformpartner. Als u denkt dat iemand uw auteursrechtelijk beschermde werk zonder uw toestemming gebruikt, kunt u het hier beschreven proces https://nl.player.fm/legal volgen.

Hosts:

Cinthia Varkevisser (Mystic) & Michelle Walters (Mind Power)

Guest:

Narelle Shehan, Life Coach, Director, and Creator of Not a Nurse or a Purse

Episode Overview:

In this episode of Mind Power Meets Mystic, Cinthia and Michelle dive into the world of dating with special guest Narelle Shehan. Narelle shares her personal journey from post-divorce dating to the creation of her popular dating philosophy, Not a Nurse or a Purse. She emphasizes the importance of being specific about what you want in a partner, learning from past relationships, and standing firm in your boundaries.

Key Topics:

  • The concept of Not a Nurse or a Purse: A guide for women (and men) to avoid slipping into caregiving roles (nurse) or being financially used (purse) in relationships.
  • Narelle’s unique dating journey: From surviving a difficult divorce to dating 100 people as a way to rediscover what she wanted in a partner.
  • The power of making a list of 100 things you want in a partner. Narelle explains how this practice helped her find someone who checked 99 of her 100 items.
  • Why dating should be treated like a part-time job: It requires effort, intentionality, and perseverance.
  • Online dating tips: Be honest in your profile, set clear boundaries, and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t align with your values.
  • The importance of finding a partner who meets your emotional and practical needs, and learning to stand by your non-negotiables.

Memorable Quotes:

  • “People are so nice. I talk to anyone, and everyone’s my friend until they’re not.” – Narelle Shehan
  • “Dating has to start where you have the most anxiety, otherwise you’ll never get over it.” – Narelle Shehan
  • “Write a list of 100 things you want in a partner, and don’t compromise on what truly matters to you.” – Narelle Shehan
  • “If they don’t have the same music or literary references as you, they’re probably not the right person.” – Narelle Shehan

Tips & Takeaways:

  • Be specific: Create a list of 100 things you want in a partner, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you really want.
  • Online dating honesty: Don’t lie about your age, height, or appearance. It sets the wrong tone from the start.
  • Boundaries are key: Know when to say no, especially when it comes to paying for dates or being expected to take on caregiving roles in relationships.
  • It’s okay to prioritize your needs: Whether it’s financial stability, emotional health, or physical compatibility, your needs are valid.
  • Treat dating like a part-time job: Be committed, focused, and willing to put in the effort to find the right partner.

About Narelle Shehan:

Narelle is a life coach, director, and creator of the dating coaching program Not a Nurse or a Purse, where she helps women and men navigate the dating world with clarity and confidence. She offers a three-month dating group where participants focus on self-awareness, healing past patterns, and renewing their approach to relationships.

What’s Next for Narelle:

Narelle is launching a free monthly masterclass in the new year, along with her signature three-month dating group, which focuses on helping individuals identify their dating blind spots and create lasting change in their relationship patterns.

Connect with Narelle:


Upcoming Episodes:

Stay tuned for more episodes where we explore the intersection of mind power and mysticism, with inspiring guests who share their personal journeys and insights on topics ranging from intuition to leadership and personal transformation.

  continue reading

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Inhoud geleverd door Cinthia Varkevisser & Michelle Walters, Cinthia Varkevisser, and Michelle Walters. Alle podcastinhoud, inclusief afleveringen, afbeeldingen en podcastbeschrijvingen, wordt rechtstreeks geüpload en geleverd door Cinthia Varkevisser & Michelle Walters, Cinthia Varkevisser, and Michelle Walters of hun podcastplatformpartner. Als u denkt dat iemand uw auteursrechtelijk beschermde werk zonder uw toestemming gebruikt, kunt u het hier beschreven proces https://nl.player.fm/legal volgen.

Hosts:

Cinthia Varkevisser (Mystic) & Michelle Walters (Mind Power)

Guest:

Narelle Shehan, Life Coach, Director, and Creator of Not a Nurse or a Purse

Episode Overview:

In this episode of Mind Power Meets Mystic, Cinthia and Michelle dive into the world of dating with special guest Narelle Shehan. Narelle shares her personal journey from post-divorce dating to the creation of her popular dating philosophy, Not a Nurse or a Purse. She emphasizes the importance of being specific about what you want in a partner, learning from past relationships, and standing firm in your boundaries.

Key Topics:

  • The concept of Not a Nurse or a Purse: A guide for women (and men) to avoid slipping into caregiving roles (nurse) or being financially used (purse) in relationships.
  • Narelle’s unique dating journey: From surviving a difficult divorce to dating 100 people as a way to rediscover what she wanted in a partner.
  • The power of making a list of 100 things you want in a partner. Narelle explains how this practice helped her find someone who checked 99 of her 100 items.
  • Why dating should be treated like a part-time job: It requires effort, intentionality, and perseverance.
  • Online dating tips: Be honest in your profile, set clear boundaries, and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t align with your values.
  • The importance of finding a partner who meets your emotional and practical needs, and learning to stand by your non-negotiables.

Memorable Quotes:

  • “People are so nice. I talk to anyone, and everyone’s my friend until they’re not.” – Narelle Shehan
  • “Dating has to start where you have the most anxiety, otherwise you’ll never get over it.” – Narelle Shehan
  • “Write a list of 100 things you want in a partner, and don’t compromise on what truly matters to you.” – Narelle Shehan
  • “If they don’t have the same music or literary references as you, they’re probably not the right person.” – Narelle Shehan

Tips & Takeaways:

  • Be specific: Create a list of 100 things you want in a partner, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you really want.
  • Online dating honesty: Don’t lie about your age, height, or appearance. It sets the wrong tone from the start.
  • Boundaries are key: Know when to say no, especially when it comes to paying for dates or being expected to take on caregiving roles in relationships.
  • It’s okay to prioritize your needs: Whether it’s financial stability, emotional health, or physical compatibility, your needs are valid.
  • Treat dating like a part-time job: Be committed, focused, and willing to put in the effort to find the right partner.

About Narelle Shehan:

Narelle is a life coach, director, and creator of the dating coaching program Not a Nurse or a Purse, where she helps women and men navigate the dating world with clarity and confidence. She offers a three-month dating group where participants focus on self-awareness, healing past patterns, and renewing their approach to relationships.

What’s Next for Narelle:

Narelle is launching a free monthly masterclass in the new year, along with her signature three-month dating group, which focuses on helping individuals identify their dating blind spots and create lasting change in their relationship patterns.

Connect with Narelle:


Upcoming Episodes:

Stay tuned for more episodes where we explore the intersection of mind power and mysticism, with inspiring guests who share their personal journeys and insights on topics ranging from intuition to leadership and personal transformation.

  continue reading

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