Are You The Fixer? (Or Looking To Be Fixed)

Alive Not Just Breathing

Following on from the chat about emotionally unavailable people, I thought back to past realisations about subconsciously looking to fix people and the validation/self worth boost that provides. Do you look to 'fix' others or keep finding yourself attracting people that appear to need 'fixing' or are you someone that tends to look to be 'fixed' by someone else? Neither are healthy. Eventually all roads lead to realising that we can only work on ourselves and understanding the difference between healthy support versus being totally reliant on someone else and giving away your power to them. I also touch on how Empaths commonly find themselves in these situations and why, and how it's not always in relationships that we can see ourselves or be seen as the 'fixer' etc.