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Join us as we chat about everything triggers - what they are, why they happen, and most importantly how to respond rather than react!
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×We are back today to chat about when our triggers cause us to feel sad :( "This is one I really struggle with for many, many, many years. Everything made me feel sad. I think it’s my default emotion." says Candice And that not uncommon for empathetic people. Sadness is one of those things that we all feel from time to time and all sorts of things can trigger us to feel sad. having trouble at home (for example, family fights or domestic violence) having trouble at school or work, or feeling pressure there moving home losing a loved one or a friend being ill, or caring for someone who is ill experiencing chemical changes in your body (from puberty, drugs or medicines) experiencing changes in your thoughts (for example, developing an unhelpful thinking style such as being self-critical, or learning new information about subjects such as poverty or terrorism). Sadness often occurs at the same time as other feelings, such as anger, stress, guilt, grief, anxiety or hopelessness. Sometimes, the other feeling may be so strong that you don’t realise you are sad. Or the sadness masks those other feelings. So sadness is one that often needs a little investigating to get to the root cause. Tune in to hear us chat about navigating sadness....…
It’s nice to be back after a little extended break! We thought we’d run a little series called Behind the Triggers to look into the emotions behind our triggers … A lot of us have that anxious feeling running through our bodies on a regular basis, and those feeling comes in a variety of states - from intense alarm bells loudly ringing to fear running in the background of our thoughts. And when this happens, we may withdraw socially, rely on substances or get caught up in drama to escape this feeling of impending doom. Truth is we end up walking through life fearful of looking at what causes this overwhelming worry & we begin to believe that we are just anxious because one or both of our parents were worriers. It’s amazing how quickly we accept this as truth, instead of we are in fear because we have been traumatized at one or more points in our lives. Tune in and listen to us chat about finding safety when triggered.…
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1 Removing the emotional charge of not feeling heard or feeling confident to articulate your needs and wants . 15:02
Nat and Candice have been chatting about how to make this podcast as impactful as possible, and have decided to, every now and then, include an episode that is a guided experience to help people navigate particular triggers or the impacts of triggers. In this episode you will be guided on an experience to help remove the emotional charge of a history of not feeling heard. This guided experiences are a combination of the modalities Nat and Candice use, influenced by narrative therapy, hypnotherapy, meditation, parts therapy and somatic release… We are going to go gently with these and encourage everyone to be gentle with themselves as they follow along. Think of this as a self-help audio to be followed when it’s safe to do so, with your eyes closed and body relaxed. So maybe in bed, on the couch, somewhere comfortable and safe to follow along. Relax in and allow yourself to fall into a dream like state.…
All sorts of things can get passed down through families generationally, physical characteristics, personality traits, genetic conditions, and in some cases trauma can also be inherited. Fascinating isn’t it. Now there is still a stack of research that needs to happen to really clarify exactly how this happens and how it all works. But at the moment there are theories around it occurring through in-utero exposure to things like stress hormones and also trauma being passed down and activated through epigenetics. If you think of it from an evolutionary perspective, because our brains are hardwired to keep us safe, for our survival we are passing down what our brains/bodies think are essential survival traits, but is actually trauma… Humans are a very clever species, but we all still have these primitive survival instincts that happen on autopilot unless we do some work essentially rewire those instinctual responses and make changes in our life around the things that trigger those responses. Listen along to this fascinating and often forgotten part of the trauma experience.…
In our latest episode we are chatting about Big T Trauma. It's a bit of a heavy on, just a heads up! Big T Trauma is a reaction to a deeply disturbing, life-threatening event or situation — so for example, war, natural disasters, violent crimes, a school shooting, a serious car accident, or sexual abuse. In addition, the death of a parent or loved one can be a big T trauma. These are the types of trauma that can lead to PTSD. For trauma to be considered PTSD, symptoms must last more than a month and be severe enough to interfere with daily functioning. Acute big T trauma results from a single traumatic incident, while chronic big T trauma is the result of repeated, ongoing trauma, such as physical or sexual abuse or domestic violence. Bullying or cyberbullying can also qualify as chronic trauma, particularly if it is severe and ongoing. Big T trauma and PTSD have serious mental, physical, and emotional impacts on people. As we said it's a heavy one, but it's worth a listen.…
In this episode we are chatting about Little T Trauma and sharing a couple of simple therapy tools you might find useful. For a long time in the trauma space even professionals were led to believe that trauma only existed when we experienced life threatening events, like war, rape, natural disasters and horrible things like that. But over time it became overwhelmingly obvious that people were experiencing events not typically defined as trauma and having the same emotional and physical impact which led to a huge expansion in the definition of and our understanding of trauma. Little T Trauma refers to events that typically don’t involve violence or disaster, but do create significant distress. Meaning, things like an ongoing situation what causes you to feel distress, hear, or a sense of helplessness can cause little T Trauma. So it might be a relationship breakdown, loss of a job, financial worries, not being heard, seen or validated as a child, times where you felt isolated and alone. These trauma’s can often be a little more difficult to identify because there wasn’t necessarily one big obvious event that stands out that caused the trauma to be trapped in the body. Remembering that trauma isn’t the event, it’s the response that happens within you.…
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Nat and Candice are back after an extended silly season break! In this episode we start a micro series on trauma. Trauma untreated can lead to all sorts of unhelpful habits and patterns in our lives. Unfortunately, there is so much confusion out there around trauma and trauma therapy so we thought we would help shed some light on it. In this episode we explain briefly what trauma is and share two techniques we use with our clients to instil a safety resource within. This resource allows you to come back to a place of safety when the healing work feels like it is getting too much. Have a listen and let us know what you think. Blessings Nat and Candice…
Join us as we chat about the benefits, and how to, start releasing emotional blockages from the body! Be sure to tune into Episode 4 or Season 2 before listening to this one! They go hand in hand x
Join Nat and Candice as they chat about the impact that long term emotional triggers can have on our health. To avoid dis-ease it is so important to move through your triggers! Have a listen and find out how you can start!
It’s getting towards the end of the year and we can all start to feel a little drained, it’s been another big year and we are starting to think about and get organised for the silly season, so I am looking forward to chatting about emotional exhaustion. I think it’s an important topic to chat about too. A little different than our usually episodes where we did into particular triggers, rather today we will chat and give examples around how ALL triggers, on top of day to day life can lead to exhaustion and it’s a real epidemic. We are an exhausted society! Like we chatted about in our last episode, it can feel like there is so much pressure to keep going and keep getting ahead, it can feel like it never goes away. But there is a big difference between daily stress and emotional exhaustion, it’s the constant stresses of life that keep going and going and going. And naturally, as we know all the things we do in life leave us vulnerable to any number of triggers that pile onto our mind and bodies stress loads. Let's chat!…
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Sometimes it can feel like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. The Pressure to get ahead can really weigh you down. Candice: And too much pressure can make a lot of us angry, resentful, feed up or sad. Or simply, over time, knock you out cold with burnout, which is exactly what happened to me. I was a classic young person over planner with a plan in my mind (at 21 I want to be starting my career, but 25 I want to be earning x amount of money, at this age I want to be engaged, at this age I need to buy a house at this age I need to have kids) I was constantly striving and putting so much pressure on myself that I not only burnt out, I lost who I even was, because I had become this life list without actually checking in on myself over the years. Natalie: Exactly, me too, I think a lot of people will relate to that! And the overwhelm to achieve can be crippling. Sometimes when we don’t achieve those steps to get ahead when we want to we feel like a failure and that can fast track burnout or even lead to anxiety or depression. Let's explore the pressure to get ahead...…
Emotional shock hits all of us at one point or another doesn’t it and it can feel very jarring or jolting in your body, and mind. It’s in those moments after we live through something hard or challenging, and we keep rationalising what happened, and telling ourselves to just ‘get over it’. But we can’t snap out of feeling strange and unsettled, no matter how hard we try. We enter something often referred to as emotional shock, otherwise known as The Trauma response. We can’t just easily snap out of it because we are triggered. We need some tools in our little life skills toolkit to move through the triggering event/s. This is a huge topic at the moment (emotional shock and trauma) with many therapists & practitioners, and there is also new research coming out all the time around emotional shock and trauma which is very exciting. Let's dive in!…
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1 What happens when you feel unheard? Do you every feel triggered when you don't feel heard or are misunderstood? 32:26
In this episode we are going to explore the feelings of being unheard, or misunderstood, and we aren’t talking about speaking loudly or audibly enough, we are talking about when you put yourself out there, share your thoughts and feelings, desires and you feel like they aren’t being picked up by the person you are sharing with. When it comes to triggers, sometimes, if you have past experiences of not being heard or understood, you may be prone to feeling this way often, or be hypervigilant, or always on the look out for other people not hearing you. For example: Your past experience might be that you were raised as ‘children should be seen and not heard’ or it might be an accumulation of events like in your childhood when you wanted to play soccer, but you were made to play basketball, you wanted to write and be creative but you were raised in a family where that was seen as airy fairy and not aloud to explore your creative side and so on. Have a listen.…
Betrayal trauma is the result of the violation of a deep attachment. We have all experienced it to some degree, but for some it can leave us easily triggered throughout our adult life. Join us as we chat a little able betrayal and some mindful based activities you can use to support yourself to navigate this difficult on!…
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1 Helplessness - that feeling you are unable to act or react in a situation that feels negative 29:06
Welcome to episode 18 of STOP! I've Just Been Triggered. In this episode we are chatting about learned hopelessness - it's a tough one to navigate and stems, generally, from childhood or traumatic experiences where your needs were not met and you weren't in a position to be able to help yourself. Research shows that ones motivation to react is subdued when control over a situation is lost - when you are triggered and feelings of helplessness creep back in, even when the situation changes and it is possible to take back control it can feel like this isn't an option. In this episode we share a few mindful tips and tricks to start to navigate this trigger, to soften the edges so it can feel safe to do the deeper healing work that might be needed with the support of a therapist.…
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