Sexual Addiction requires that you know the tools to seek and manage recovery. Learn the strategies to restore your life.
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We need a new story about midlife for women, because you’re never too old and it’s never too late to become the woman you always wanted to be. Join host Eleanor Mills as she explores a more optimistic narrative around the later stages of women’s lives, with guests drawn from a contacts book spanning 25 years as an award winning editor and newspaper journalist. Eleanor is founder of NOON.org.uk, the home of the Queenager - the term she coined to positively rebrand women in midlife. The Queena ...
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The Debrief: What we learned from Dr Sharon Blackie
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In this companion episode to The Queenager Podcast, Eleanor Mills and Wendy Lloyd discuss the biggest takeaways from episode featuring Dr Sharon Blackie. Here you'll find the inspirational takeaways from the psychotherapist and author so you can take action and make positive change in your life. Eleanor Mills is the founder of NOON, the UK's leadin…
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Dr Sharon Blackie: How fairy tales can help us reimagine ourselves
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Sharon Blackie is a psychotherapist and academic. Her books – including her latest Wise Women – brings together lost myths, fairy tales and stories for women at midlife and beyond. In this episode, we ask what the second half of women's lives could look like if we rerouted ourselves in positive myths of wise older women. "I'd always had a deep root…
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The Debrief: What we learned from Carol Vorderman
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In this companion episode to The Queenager Podcast episode with Carol Vorderman (S1 E5), Eleanor Mills and Wendy Lloyd discuss the biggest takeaways from Carol, the broadcaster from humble beginnings turned political firebrand. You'll find the inspirational takeaways from Carol Vorderman so you can take action and make positive change in your life.…
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Carol Vorderman: From free school meals to taking on the Tories
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Carol Vorderman, the broadcaster turned political firebrand, talks with Eleanor Mills about coming from poor North Wales to Cambridge, her new book 'Now What?', snobbery, politics – plus where power lies now.Door Eleanor Mills
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The Magic of Empathy with Carol the Coach
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Carol has an upcoming HHH group and she wants sex addicts to learn empathy the right way. Listen as she shares what this group offers to men who lack empathy!Door Sex Help with Carol the Coach
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The Debrief: What we learned from Dr Lucy Ryan
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In this companion episode to The Queenager Podcast episode with Dr Lucy Ryan (S1 E4), Eleanor Mills and Wendy Lloyd discuss the biggest takeaways from Lucy, coach, psychologist and author of Revolting Women: Why Midlife Women are Walking Out and What to Do About It. The Sunday Times praised the coach and positive psychologist's searing analysis of …
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Dr Lucy Ryan: Challenging the brain drain of Queenager careers
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"No one wants to read about old women," an advisor told Dr. Lucy Ryan, which spurred her to write her book Revolting Women: Why Midlife Women are Walking Out and What to Do About It. It proved him wrong. The Sunday Times praised the coach and positive psychologist's searing analysis of the Queenager Braindrain. Why it is that 30 years after men and…
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The Debrief: What we learned from Dr Nighat Arif
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In this companion episode to The Queenager Podcast episode with Dr Nighat Arif (S1 E3), Eleanor Mills and Wendy Lloyd discuss the biggest takeaways from Dr Nighat, women's health explainer and campaigner. You'll find the inspirational takeaways from Dr Nighat so you can take action and make positive change in your life. Eleanor Mills is the founder…
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Dr Nighat Arif: How to boss midlife health and the menopause
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Dr Nighat Arif is an amazing women's health specialist who has revolutionised women's medical coverage in the UK. She regularly on This Morning and BBC Breakfast as their expert doctor and is the author of The Knowledge, an essential guide to everything women might be too embarrassed to ask their GP. Dr Nighat came to the UK from Pakistan aged 9 sp…
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In this companion episode to The Queenager Podcast episode with Liz Earle (S1 E2), Eleanor Mills and Wendy Lloyd discuss the biggest takeaways from Liz, wellness guru, bestselling author ... and midlife dater. You'll find the inspirational takeaways from Liz Earle so you can take action and make positive change in your life. Eleanor Mills is the fo…
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Liz Earle MBE: Wellbeing advice and tales of midlife love
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Liz Earle MBE bestselling author of A Better Second Half and midlife health guru, talks to Eleanor Mills about how we become the women we want to be. They discuss how exactly a Queenager should start the day for optimum function (Eleanor has been doing it ever since), why midlife is all about reinvention and Liz's own midlife collision - involving …
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How Can We Practice Fearless Sexuality with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Taylor Chambers who has devoted his life to helping men become -resilient and to find freedom and liberation from his addiction and live a healthy life with intimacy, integrity and intention. He explains, "My life journey and career changes led me to develop unique approaches for those who struggle to esta…
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In this companion episode to The Queenager Podcast, Eleanor Mills and Wendy Lloyd discuss the biggest takeaways from our guest Laura Tenison, founder of Jojo Maman Bébé and now owner of an amazing Welsh farmstead and retreat. You'll find the inspirational takeaways from Laura so you can take action and make positive change in your life. Eleanor Mil…
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Laura Tenison: From Jojo Maman Bébé to a gorgeous Welsh retreat
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In this debut episode of The Queenager, Eleanor Mills sits down with Laura Tenison MBE, the pioneering founder of JoJo Maman Bébé, for her first interview since selling her business. Laura shares her inspiring pivot from retail success to fulfilling a lifelong dream of creating well-being retreats that celebrate nature. The Queenager is sponsored b…
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The Biases of Having ADHD with Carol the Coach
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Today CSAT therapist Jonah Anderson and Carol the Coach will be discussing ADHD so that people can have a better understanding of what it is like to live with this condition. He wants to educate people about the challenges, difficulties, and pain that comes with this condition. Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is probably one of the worst aspects of A…
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Why is Mindfulness Essential in Managing SA and PA Betrayal with Carol the Coach
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Today CaroltheCoach will be interviewing Blaze Cosko, who uses a Mindfulness Based Addiction & Trauma Therapy approach to assist clients in working throught sex addiction and partner betrayal. MBATT is an evidence-based modality that helps empower individuals to become more aware of the subliminal patterns that lead their lives. By building mindful…
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Getting Through Partner Betrayal with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Emellina Belle MA, LMFT, ASECT, who is going to be discussing the needs for partners to have a supportive space fto actively navigate the tumultuous journey of discovery or disclosure, dealing with complex trauma, and experiencing PTSD symptoms. She will be discussing the profound impact of partner sexual betr…
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A Story of Staying Determined with Carol the Coach
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We will be talking with the author of Determined for More, Shawna Meek, as she shares about her new book, an authentic memoir of a wife that was given God’s grace beyond her own strength. Shawna shares how she loved, wept, pleaded and grieved, yet never stopped fighting for something she believed was possible. Her story is a real and raw account of…
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"Loved Just As I Am" with Carol the Coach
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People get to choose how they respnd to trauma. Today, Carol the Coach interviews Mellissa McDaniel wh wrote Loved Just As I Am a memoir about her choices. She explains, "We don't get to pick the traumatic events that happen in our lives, but we do get to choose how we let them write our story." In her debut release, Loved Just As I Am, Licensed Cl…
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Porn to Purpose with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol will be interviewing Matthew Sinkovitz who is the founder of P*n to Purpose. He has a men's community on line and on FB with 1400 members who want to help each other in recovery. It is a group for men to rekindle their relationships. It is a place where they can go to redesign their life!…
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The Benefits of a Formal Therapeutic Seperation with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol will be interviewing Stevie Hall and Lindsey Stanley who have felt that couples needed a guide to navigate reasons a therapeutic seperation could benefit the coupleship. They have a book pending release: Therapeutic Separation: A Guide for Couples Facing Addiction that will help identify the pros and cons for taking a time out. Their w…
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Walk in Integrity with Help.Her.Heal. Groups with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol is interviewing Chayse Fayle, a Master Certified Professional Coach, APSATS trainee, and Certified Help Her Heal Group Leader. Chase is no stranger to the complexities of life's challenges, particularly in the realm of addiction and relationship dynamics. As the guiding force behind Resilient Mind's addiction and couple's coaching, Cha…
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Gay Sexuality with Carol the Coach
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Tonight's episode is about the gay culture. Jeff Aldeson is facilitating a Sex and Intimacy Group for Gay Men and Gary Katz is a LCSW, CSAT-S, EMDR who is a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist for Center for Intimacy Recovery. Together they answer questions that Carol has about men, sex, relationships and growing up gay. Carol the Coach wanted to do…
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Your Marriage Can Survive Porn Addiction with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach interviews Kirsten D. Samuel, Coach, Author, and Speaker who wants to inspire woman to know that they can survive the devestation that has caused them. She explains that after 25 years of marriage, my husband revealed his addiction. He was caught looking at inappropriate images at work. Like most women who face this discovery…
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Women Who Struggle with Sex, Love and Porn Addiction with Carol the Coach
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Eddie Capparucci and his colleagues Heather Cronemiller and Lacy Alajna Bentley have collaborated on a book for women struggling with sex, love, and addiction. Going Deeper for Women: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction is based on Eddie Capparuci's Inner Child Model for treating sex/ addiction. This Inner Child Model has been h…
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Sex Addiction 101 with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol the Coach will be talking to Josh and Charlene Lewis who are co-founders of programing for both the partner and the addict that have foundations in the works of Patrick Carnes.They have an intensive that is remote and they believe in making it easy for their clients. On this podcast they will be sharing their own hope, strength and wisd…
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What Is Sexualized Drug Use with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol the Coach is interviewing Dr. David Fawcett who has written a new book called Under the Influence about the deadly effect that substances have in combination withcompulsive problematic sexual behaviors. When sex and drugs are combined repeatedly and compulsively, there is a high risk of developing what Dr. David Fawcett calls sexualized…
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Working Through the Devastation of Betrayal w/ Empowerment with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Amie Woolsey who has created a program for women who have experienced sexual betrayal and have decided to divorce to and move on to their next chapter. She teaches about the three pillars - Awareness, Acceptance, and Agency - when applied to a partner's healing journey, to enable empowerment and choice. S…
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Passport to Shame---Ticket to Shame with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Sam Louie who authored Passport to Shame From Asian Immigrant to American Addict. Sam explains that "Asian cultures are rooted in shame. They are known as shame-based societies because the lives, families, and mindsets of these cultures revolve around some aspect of avoiding shame to preserve familial and cult…
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Learn to Facilitate Disclosures from the Gurus with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Janice Caudill and Dan Drake, who created his and hers, step-by-step, companion workbooks for helping couples prepare for, complete and heal after a full disclosure process. Since the books came out they are now training professionals to navigate these difficult waters with their clients, helping them to u…
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How Can An ERCEM Workshop Change Your Life with Carol the Coach
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When betrayal has occurred, it's natural for couples to seek out marriage counseling in a desperate attempt to repair the relationship, only to be frustrated because he doesn’t know how to show empathy for the pain the betrayal he has caused her and she doesn’t know how to feel safe with someone who violated her trust so deeply. Today, Carol the Co…
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The Many Types of Gaslighting with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Joshua Nichols who has developed 12 Types of Gaslighting and 4 Types of Vulnerability Exploitation to help you both identify these maladaptive coping skills to make healthier choices.Door Sex Help with Carol the Coach
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Staying in this Sober Living Home Seems to Have it All with CTC
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Today Carol the Coach interviews Lisa and Andrew Reichel from Room to Heal. Room to Heal is a recovery residence in Charlotte, NC for men battling sex and addiction that breaks the mold of traditional sexual addiction recovery by offering men a more affordable option for immersive healing while providing intentional time apart for couples. They hav…
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Three Day Intensives are a Dealbreaker with Carol the Coach
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Today Carol the Coach interviews Tina Wehner President of Hope and Freedom Counseling Services and Intensives. Tina will be explaining how going to a 3 day intensive can benefit the couple as they work at restoring their relationship.She explains that Intensives provide transformational results. She explains that "While we cannot cure sex addiction…
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How to Handle Difficult Sexual Conversations with Our Kids with Carol the Coach
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Do you ever feel like you need a guide for what to say to your children about the most important topics in their childhood? Do you want to understand why our society struggles with crucial conversations about consent, body safety, sexuality, masturbation, ography, and social media, and smart devices? Well today, Clint Davis, Counselor and Father, g…
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How Does Betrayal Effect Male Partners with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach speaks with Jesse Pyles, whose niche is the underserved male partner. He believes that male hetersexual partners have a lack of resources and as a result likely deal with the fear, anger and sadness and loss alone. In this episode he shares the common myths a male may hear if his betrayal is shared. Join us for a fascinating …
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Addicts Require Working From 2 Perspectives with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol will be interviewing 2 professionals who have developed a program that speaks to the emotions that drive unwanted sexual behavior. Dr. Anthony B. Walker has a Ph.D. in Human Development and Family Science, is an APSATS candidate and works as an addiction recovery life coach and recovery group facilitator with Choose Recovery Services a…
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Enhance Your Partner Recovery in India with Carol the Coach
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Aarti Chidambaram is Asia's sole APSATS-certified partner specialist. As a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), she works with Partners of Betrayal Trauma. She is also on the Board of APSATS. Her approach to working with partners from “Discovery to Recovery©” focuses on practical tools to deal with complex issues. Facilitating one of the l…
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When Do Partners Need a Retreat to Deal with Grief and Anger w/Carol the Coach
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Todday Carol the Coach is interviewing Tera Brown who is a trauma informed Coach and Speaker. As an APSATS trainee, she specializes in helping people who have endured relational trauma create personal safety, emotional awareness and peace. She woke up from a lifelong pattern she wasn’t even aware of when after 16 years of marriage her husband discl…
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How Do You Cope with Gaslighting and Other Forms of Abuse with Carol the Coach
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As a trailblazer and thought-leader in the field of GASLIGHTING, Sarah Morales found the "traditional" definition was leaving people MORE confused about what IS and IS NOT GASLIGHTING; it was stigmatizing; it was perpetuating fear and a sense of powerlessness. SHE FOUND THAT THIS WAS NOT HELPING ANYONE! Her work in this field over the past decade h…
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Thriving, Not Just Surviving: Possibilities for Love with Carol the Coach
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Carol the Coach believes that couples can get through partner betrayal and find post traumatic growth. Today, she interviews authors Joanna and Matt Raabsmith who along with Dan Drake, wrote Building True Intimacy:Creating a Connection that Stands the Test of Time. In this book they describe about how couples can navigate some of the later stages o…
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Encounter-Centered Couples Therapy Can Make A Difference with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach, Mary Kay Cocharo who wants to educate our listeners abou a new type of support and intervention.Encounter-Centered Couples Therapy is an integrative relational model at the intersection of philosophy, clinical theory, organizational methodology, and relational neurobiology. It aims at assisting couples to experience the most…
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Complex Partner Trauma with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach is talking to Hope Ray, the founder of the Betrayal Violence Institute. Hope has created new terminology and conceptionalization for professionals and couples when complex partner trauma and betrayal violence has been identified. She has created hope for society to better understand betrayal violence starting with the experie…
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The Porn Solution with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach interviews Sandra Shachar PhD, who has just released The Solution, Relationship Repair After ography Betrayal. In her book she realizes that can fracture a couples relationship. She writes, "It is likely that your relationship is in crisis following the discovery of hidden ography use. If you, as the discovering partner, acci…
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Some People Don't Even Think Sex Addiction Exists with Carol the Coach
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The American Foundation for Addiction Research (AFAR) is a public non-profit that funded research into understanding and effectively treating addiction, with a special focus on sex addiction. Today Carol the Coach will be interviewing Tim Stein, a colleague who wants the putblic to be aware of the research behind sex addiction and the important co-…
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Adult Children of Sex Addicts with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Ken Adams who has co-authored a groundbreaking book A Light in the Dark: The Hidden Legacy of Adult Children of Sex Addicts detailing the unique issues experienced by adult children who grew up with a sexually addicted parent, and offering a path to unburden their shameful legacy and embrace sexuality and…
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The Betrayal Bind with Carol the Coach
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Betrayed partners need immediate support to navigate the new terrain of their relationship. They need a clear articulation of betrayal trauma, a thorough education about their normal attachment-based reactions, and a proven path to healing. Today, Carol the Coach is interviewing Michelle Mays LPC, CSAT-S, who is an expert at helping partners work …
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A Male Partners Story with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach interviews a Male Partner who is in Post-Traumatic Growh. Listen as he tells you how he got there!Door Sex Help with Carol the Coach
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The Addict is Traumatized Too with Carol the Coach
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When a couple seeks therapy after discovering one of them have been living a secret and harmful life of betrayal. The usual treatment plan will most likely focus on the betrayer becoming sober and learning to live a life of integrity, and the betrayed partner beginning a path of healing from the PTSD symptoms of betrayal trauma. This is a well rese…
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A Partner Shares How She is Healing Herself with Carol the Coach
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Today, Carol the Coach will be interviewing Corinna Kaufman who is a partner who is in the middle of transformation. She is speaking, writing and sharing her message of self empowerment and change.Door Sex Help with Carol the Coach
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