Beste Dan And James Are Dating podcasts (2024)

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Big Feet, Big... Energy? 23:41

2d ago23:41

23:41

Pubs, they're a British institution. But, in this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay, James and Dan are exploring the cultural differences between gay and nongay people when it comes to the drinking hole: cleanliness, atmosphere and even drinkware. In non-drinking news, this week we're tackling the contentious phrase "fannying around" and learning…

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Traffic Cones On Your Head 19:41

9d ago19:41

19:41

Have you ever put a traffic cone on your head? On this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay, we're starting off with a serious (not) debate about headwear, after a listener questioned if gay people participate in this holy ritual. As the conversation turns more serious, James and Dan are discussing female and Queer aggression towards straight men an…

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Humour Is A Great Form Of Therapy with Rob Madge 25:18

16d ago25:18

25:18

We are joined by a modern-day icon of the theatre world on this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay! Rob Madge first rose to prominence as a child actor, appearing in the West End productions of Mary Poppins and Oliver!. Rob gained mainstream popularity for the WhatsOnStage Award-winning and Olivier Award-nominated autobiographical show My Son's A …

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What's Hair Dye Got To Do With It? 18:11

23d ago18:11

18:11

Why do gay people always bang on about being themselves... and then die their hair? Homophobia to one side - on this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay, James & Dan talk about how personal choices like hair styles and clothing can be used to reflect your true identity. Also on this weeks podcast, we dive into gender neutral bathrooms and self-iden…

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Are You More Than A Gay Best Friend? 14:26

1M ago14:26

14:26

We're back with a new episode of A Gay And A NonGay and this week we're diving into the world of relationships - and all of the complexities that can with them. James and Dan talk about the stereotype of having (or being) a 'gay best friend'. What does it mean, and is it a bad thing? They also debate the idea of ownership between partners, and expl…

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All It Was & All It Could Have Been 15:42

1M ago15:42

15:42

Now that the Summer seems to be officially over (thanks, weather!), us here at A Gay And A NonGay HQ are reflecting on all it was, and all it could have been. Whilst Dan was flying between London and New York, James was at Edinburgh Festival with his new show. But you know what we all were doing? Reacting to Oasis' reunion! Outside of our Champagne…

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It's A Lesbian Renaissance with GIRLI 25:15

1M ago25:15

25:15

A Gay And A NonGay is officially back from the Summer break! And we're back with a bang as singer-songwriter GIRLI sits down with James & Dan to talk about the lesbian renaissance in pop culture. We're diving into the history of the term 'lesbian' and the matriarchy, as well as the unique experience of being a Queer woman. Amongst that, the trio ta…

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From Queer Joy to Rage with Reuben Kaye 26:40

3M ago26:40

26:40

Looking for unapologetic honesty? This weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay delivers exactly that as James and Dan are joined by Australian singer, writer, performer and comedian Reuben Kaye. The trio dive deep into queer culture - addressing the spectrum from Queer joy to Queer rage, as well as Reuben's experience with homophobia and cancel culture…

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Dating Whilst Discovering Yourself 11:53

3M ago11:53

11:53

Following last weeks conversation about gay stereotypes, this week James and Dan are diving into another myth: that all gay people know each other! Hint: It's, obviously, not true. The question leads onto a conversation about social media habits and the awkwardness that can come with liking people's posts online. This weeks episode of A Gay And A N…

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Why Do Gays Dance Better? (& Other Stereotypes) 16:01

3M ago16:01

16:01

On this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay we're discussing two unavoidable questions that have been plaguing the community for years: the so-called 'gay voice' and... why gay people are seemingly so much better at dancing? OK, maybe not. Dan and James tackle these subjects through the lens of internalised homophobia and how stereotypes can lead t…

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New York vs London Dating with Bright Light Bright Light 24:47

3M ago24:47

24:47

We have a special guest on A Gay And A Non-Gay this week... it's 4x Top 20 charting artist Bright Light Bright Light! The Welsh-born, New York-based artist talks with James and Dan about the differences in dating cultures between New York and London as well as the importance of self-love and redefining our perceptions of love and relationships, par…

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Hell, Toes and Unasked Questions 15:14

4M ago15:14

15:14

Talk about twists and turns... this weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay spans spans from the afterlife to unexpected Grindr encounters in Bali. James and Dan kick off by pondering a fear of going to hell before talking about uncomfortable family dynamics and persistent questions from loved ones. They also tackle a listener dilemma about dealing wit…

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Failed Pop Stars & Dating Someone In The Closet 17:48

4M ago17:48

17:48

Pride Month might have come to an end... but every month is Pride Month on this show! Looking back at this years Mighty Hoopla, James talks about the relationship between gay people and 'failed' pop stars as well as the importance of safety and inclusivity at festivals. In this weeks advice segment, James and Dan explore the challenges faced by a l…

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How Do You Know... If You've Never Done It? 24:28

4M ago24:28

24:28

This week, James and Dan are tackling listener questions around challenging assumptions about sexuality. In this weeks "Non-Gays Can't Say", Josh from Glasgow asks a provocative question around how you truly know if you're gay... if you've never been with a woman. The discussion shifts to recent comments made by the Pope, leading to a conversation …

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Why We Still Need Pride Month 21:50

4M ago21:50

21:50

With the pendulum swinging and violence towards the LGBTQ+ community on the rise, this week James and Dan are discussing why Pride Month is still so important. They talk about issues ranging from violence to conversation therapy and discriminatory laws, whilst also delving into James' personal experience with domestic abuse and the challenges of sp…

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When Did "Just Sex" Stop Being Enough? 11:11

5M ago11:11

11:11

James and Dan are back with a bonus Dear Queerdrie episode, answering a listener's question: when did 'just sex' stop being enough? Let us know what you think on our socials @gaynongay or email us with your opinions and dilemmas - us@gaynongay.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Some Men In London: A Conversation with Peter Parker About Gay History 26:00

5M ago26:00

26:00

Happy Pride Month! In this episode, James and Dan are in conversation with writer and historian Peter Parker to discuss his new anthology series Some Men In London. The books explore discovered memoirs, letters and documents which depict what life was truly like for gay men in London between the 40s and late 50s. Both volumes are available to purch…

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How To Find Gay Friends In Your 30s 20:40

5M ago20:40

20:40

How do you go about making male gay friends as a man in your 30s? Are heterosexual people allowed to use terms like 'top/bottom' and 'pillow princess'? And how does a closeted Hip-Hop MC go about embracing who he really is without risking his career? James and Dan explore it all in this episode. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/…

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A Conversation with Eurovision's 2024 Winner Nemo 24:43

5M ago24:43

24:43

James and Dan caught up with the winner of 2024 Eurovision, Nemo. They chat about how the winning single was created, what's the tea on the dropped trophy and advice for anyone who is non-binary and struggling with their coming out. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Can identity exist without labels? 23:45

5M ago23:45

23:45

James and Dan use a previous listener dilemma as a starting point for a wider discussion around labels and identity. They also answer the question of why gays and lesbians don't get along. Listen back to the chat with Helen Scott here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Is it toxic for gays to be anti-pride? 18:10

6M ago18:10

18:10

Why are so many gays anti-pride? Is it internalised homophobia? Plus - are bisexuals just greedy? Dan ran the London Marathon in 3h 27! You can help him help Marie Curie here. Get tickets to see James’ new show at www.jamesbarrcomedy.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Is monogamy a hoax? 22:28

6M ago22:28

22:28

James and Dan react to RuPaul saying that monogamy is a hoax. Is there such thing as monogamy with men, and is it a different script for gays and nongays? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Who Is Joel Creasey's Front Runner For Eurovision? 23:27

6M ago23:27

23:27

Ahead of Eurovision, and James co-hosting Denmark's official pre party Malmohagen, Australian comedian and actor Joel Creasey joins James and Dan on this week's episode. Who will Joel be flirting with back stage at Eurovision? What was it like opening for Joan Rivers? And which Minogue sister would be amazing as a UK or Australian Eurovision entry?…

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Richard Gadd on Baby Reindeer (2019 Re-Release) 20:50

6M ago20:50

20:50

Netflix's 'Baby Reindeer' creator Richard Gadd had a chat with James and Dan back in 2019 at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival when it was first performed as a stage show. Trigger Warning - this episode does contain conversations about abuse and sexual violence. For help and guidance, you can find Survivors Network at survivorsnetwork.org.uk. Learn mor…

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Are 'TradWives' Progressive Or A Step Backwards? 19:11

7M ago19:11

19:11

Have you seen the TradWives movement? What do you think? In this episode James and Dan explore whether coming out will always be 'a thing', the boom of the TradWives movement and answer your pressing life dilemmas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Exploring Trans Love And Identity: 'Close To You' with Elliot Page & Dominic Savage 18:42

7M ago18:42

18:42

James and Dan share a deep conversation with Elliot Page and Dominic Savage, makers of the new film 'Close To You'. Sam (Elliot Page) has a chance encounter with an old friend (Hillary Baack) on his way home to a dreaded family reunion that forces him to confront long-buried feelings. They explore the creative process behind creating this film and …

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I Had To Have Tea With His Mum On The First Date 20:35

7M ago20:35

20:35

What would you do if you had to have tea with someone's mum on the first date? James and Dan are back and in this episode they explore whether online LGBTQ+ inclusivity posts actually do more harm than good... as well as responding to more of your pressing dilemmas! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Barbie needed The Gays 18:59

8M ago18:59

18:59

Happy Ken Day! ... But where were the gays in Barbieland? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Crystal Hefner's Journey to Freedom: How to find strength after manipulation and control 21:15

8M ago21:15

21:15

Crystal Hefner sheds light on her time at the infamous Playboy Mansion, from the glamour of the mansion to the shadows of manipulation, abuse and control. James and Dan discuss Hugh Hefner's legacy and the dark underbelly of the Playboy empire. From the pressures of maintaining physical perfection to the emotional and financial exploitation. Crysta…

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Do All Men Reply Like That...? 20:07

8M ago20:07

20:07

Do you find yourself attractive? Would you put your honey where your mouth is and literally taste your own penis? James and Dan are back with a chat about self-image, arousal, and how to navigate intimacy in modern relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Do Gay's Experience 'The Girlfriend Effect'? 20:14

8M ago20:14

20:14

Is the "girlfriend effect" real? Do straight men suddenly get their act together because of their girlfriends? Plus James wants to know if it's okay to filter your pics before sliding into someone's DMs? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Crazy Celeb Rumours 19:40

8M ago19:40

19:40

James and Dan dive into the absurdity of rumors about Prince's alleged rib removal and an MP's peculiar habit. Plus what is docking? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Jamie Dornan Reviews His 'Doppelgänger' Dan 25:49

9M ago25:49

25:49

It's finally happened. What does Jamie Dornan think of Dan moonlighting as a Jamie Dornan look alike? Jamie Dornan makes a surprise appearance to settle the score on Dan's Jamie Dornan lookalike status. Plus our listener shares his struggles with being mistaken for gay and wonders if there's something he's missing about himself. Get in touch with u…

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I think I fancy my best friend 22:03

9M ago22:03

22:03

James and Dan are back and we're answering your questions. Today, a straight man in his thirties, finds himself grappling with unexpected emotions for his friend who's about to tie the knot. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Queer Love and Loneliness: A Conversation with Andrew Haigh, Director of 'All of Us Strangers' 25:28

9M ago25:28

25:28

James and Dan sit down with acclaimed filmmaker Andrew Haigh to dive deep into his latest film, "All of Us Strangers." The movie explores the complexities of love, loneliness, and the queer experience, taking viewers on a journey through time and emotion. Andrew shares his insights into the creative process, discussing the challenges of revisiting …

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Best of the Guests 2023 32:11

10M ago32:11

32:11

Join James and Dan for a trip through some of their favourite interviews from 2023. Highlights include our chat with Eva Echo after she sued the NHS over waiting times for trans patients, a lively debate with gay Tory Councillor Andrew Boff, our emotional conversation with the Real Jill Nalder from It’s A Sin, a chilling conversation about chemsex …

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DJ Fat Tony on addiction, recovery and how to finally find happiness 40:56

10M ago40:56

40:56

Live at Cheerful Earful Festival Part 2. James Barr and Dan Hudson are joined by legendary DJ Fat Tony for an in-depth conversation about addiction, recovery and how he finally found happiness. We also hear about Tony & Stavros wedding plans, and how their special day will be dedicated to the entire LGBTQ+ community. DJ Fat Tony interview starts at…

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Jamie Raines - Live at Cheerful Earful Festival Part 1 23:23

10M ago23:23

23:23

In the first of two episodes recorded live at Cheerful Earful Festival in November, James Barr and Dan Hudson are joined by LGBTQ+ educator & YouTuber Jamie Raines - who gained a huge online following by sharing his personal transition with the internet. But first, Things Dan Cannot Say returns, and Dan thinks gays ‘should admit that RuPaul’s Drag …

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The Aces 13:59

11M ago13:59

13:59

James and Dan are joined by Cristal and Alisa from The Aces. We’re going to talk about the new album, growing up in the Mormon Church and why they decided to leave - how amazing their shows in Utah have been and the positive effect they have on queer youth around the world. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Re-release: Our big gay show with Sophie Anderson 43:01

11M ago43:01

43:01

Re-release: Our big gay show with Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson and Vanessa Feltz. In light of the sad death of Sophie Anderson, this week there's another chance to hear our Big Gay Show. This episode was recorded live at the Underbelly Festival in September 2021 with very special guests Sophie Anderson, Vanesa Feltz and Felicity Ward. Episode Tim…

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No one cares that you have a girlfriend 10:27

11M ago10:27

10:27

Why do people feel the need to announce that they're in a relationship? Is it arrogant? James has had it with people telling him they have a boyfriend. Dan thinks it's pretty normal. Let us know your thoughts 😂 find us on your socials by searching gaynongay. Kisses x Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Pride and Politics - Are Tories welcome in LGBTQ+ spaces? 16:42

11M ago16:42

16:42

Is the Conservative Party welcome in LGBTQ+ spaces? Dan and James discuss a recent twitter/X spat where some members of the Tory Party were allegedly physically thrown out of gay bar in Manchester. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Unashamedly Gay, Unashamedly Christian with Jayne Ozanne 33:13

12M ago33:13

33:13

Today we welcome Jayne Ozanne. Jayne is a former member of the UK government's LGBT advisory panel but sensationally quit 2 years ago because of ministers creating a 'hostile environment for LGBTQ+ people'. Jayne discusses the tories continuous lack of action on their much ‘promised’ conversion therapy ban. At the time of release there is still con…

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Are the Conservative Party betraying LGBTQ+ rights? a conversation with Andrew Boff 22:46

1y ago22:46

22:46

James and Dan are joined by Conservative politician Andrew Boff - who was ejected from the party conference after heckling the Home Secretary Suella Braverman. Why did he do it? Should Suella resign for inciting hate speech against LGBTQ+ people? And can the Tory party really claim to be 'safe' for LGBTQ+ people? Join us for our next recording live…

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Thy Art Is Eternal... Transphobia in music 19:09

1y ago19:09

19:09

James and Dan discuss transphobia in their respective worlds, as deathcore band Thy Art is Murder sack their transphobic singer - and 90s band Eternal split into two over the trans debate. Listen again to our episode with Louise! Watch the video about XL Bully dog owners Get tickets to our upcoming live show at Cheerful Earful Festival in London on…

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Princess Diana 21:19

1y ago21:19

21:19

How often does Dan think about the Roman Empire, and how often does James think about Princess Diana? Dan has some very exciting career news, and James definitely does not have the hump! Plus, bird news. Get tickets to our upcoming live show at Cheerful Earful Festival in London on November 2nd! (Book Dan as a Jamie Dornan lookalike on lookalikes.c…

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What is life like for LGBTQ+ asylum seekers in the UK? 20:00

1y ago20:00

20:00

James and Dan are joined by Leila Zadeh from Rainbow Migration. Together, we dig deep into the harsh realities faced by LGBTQ+ asylum seekers trying to find safety in the UK. Leila reveals the heartbreaking truth about the challenges these individuals face, shining a light on the trauma caused by the UK's immigration detention system. This episode …

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Is being 'thick' a 'gay' thing? 12:09

1y ago12:09

12:09

Dan thinks that James might pretend to be "thick" to fit a gay stereotype? This goes down well 😂 and James wonders if Dan thinks "all straight people are boring", prompting a lively exchange. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Bird News 21:01

1y ago21:01

21:01

We're back with Bird News! James is ‘back in the game’ - dating-wise, but doesn’t want to use any apps. Plus is driving a car 'straight'? and it’s James’ birthday but why was Dan not invited? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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Is it safe to be gay in the UK? 19:06

1y ago19:06

19:06

James reflects on the horrific events at The Two Brewers in Clapham in August, and asks if the UK is a safe place for gay people. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesDoor James Barr and Dan Hudson

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