Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern da ...
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(Rewind): Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead!
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12:45In today’s Rewind episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like a…
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286: Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Do THIS | Ft. Yung Pueblo
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45:42In this episode, Matthew sits down once again with Yung Pueblo, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of "How To Love Better", to explore deeper insights into love, relationships, and emotional growth. Topics Covered: How to cultivate emotional peace and avoid sabotaging relationships The challenge of maintaining non-attachment while desiring lo…
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(Matt Monday): Yung Pueblo on Signs Your Relationship Will Last
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42:31This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author Yung Pueblo. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more. …
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This week’s video is about moving in together. But you should watch it even if you’re not at that stage with someone, because it contains a truth that is essential to understand when moving from one stage of a relationship to the next. If there is someone in your life you plan on getting more serious with, this is for you. I felt this video was esp…
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285: When They Tell You They Can’t Be in a Relationship...
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18:00Are you struggling with heartbreak after falling for someone who says they can’t be with you? In this episode, Matthew unpacks what it really means when someone claims they “can’t” be in a relationship. Through the of a woman who gave everything to a man who wouldn’t commit, Matthew breaks down key insights that will help you regain clarity, self-w…
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(Matt Monday): Top Questions About “No Contact” After a Breakup
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18:34Description: After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .” What if . . . • It’s their birthday? • They’re going through a hard time? • I run into them? • They reach out? • I find out they really miss me? • “No contact” isn’t po…
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(Rewind): The #1 SIGN That Relationship WON'T LAST & How To End It...
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21:27Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another. Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship. With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while …
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284: How to Handle Heartbreak on Valentine’s Day
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56:32Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pain of moving on, and how to navigate feelings of loss, regret, and loneliness. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss our free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the …
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283: Q&A: Red Flags, Heartbreak, And Getting Closure
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48:34In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbreak to recognizing red flags, they also break down the emotional roadblocks that keep people stuck and show you how to move forward. You'll hear: How to ungive up on dating in 2025 Why closure isn’t a…
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(Matt Monday): The Real Reason Your Ex Broke Up With You
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26:59There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we an…
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Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day? Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th: There’s too much pressure to be romantic. It’s all about money and gifts. Single people are made to feel like failures. It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s is…
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(Matt Monday): Don’t Do These 4 Things After a Breakup…
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31:25When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel li…
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(Rewind): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG
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17:53It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like…
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282: The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life
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26:04In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew al…
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(Matt Monday): Why It’s So Hard to Leave a Narcissistic Relationship
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20:44Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool th…
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What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug? Nope. While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presen…
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281: 5 Small Habits to Change Your Love Life TODAY
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1:13:37In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Pow…
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(Matt Monday): 5 Behaviors That Push People Away (Without You Realizing)
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28:47Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanti…
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"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .” Nobody wants to hear these words. Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about. Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term. It leaves you wishing they could just get over their inde…
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280: "Why ‘New Year, New Me’ Is a Lie – The Truth About Change"
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42:06In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals witho…
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(Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut
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23:57“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all…
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(Rewind): What Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person Looks Like
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19:26Can you relate to this? You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example). But here’s the catch: they’re …
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279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025
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44:31In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you…
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(Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...
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21:37After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re tr…
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(Rewind): The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart
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10:18I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because …
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278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki
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1:06:44In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one…
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(Matt Monday): How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps
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24:45Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to: • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way). • Increase your love…
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Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace? It’s a profound form of mental torture. All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?” If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life… Or if…
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277: The #1 Tool to Reduce Anxiety in Your Relationships w/ Mel Robbins
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1:02:46Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins (@melrobbins, that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her grou…
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(Matt Monday): The 3 Biggest Money RED FLAGS in Relationships…
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1:43:07A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money. Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? Wha…
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You know what drives me soooo crazy? Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again. And I don’t blame anyone for believing them. The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsible for spreading certain “facts” about love and dating that just aren’t true. So today, I …
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(Matt Monday): 10 Ways to Get Over “Dating Disappointment”
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25:25Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.” But these stories aren’t t…
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When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice? Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain? All of this may help. Maybe. It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following th…
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276: The Subtle Signs You're Forcing a Relationship With the Wrong Person
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27:00In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating strategy when you feel like your on a timeline because of your biological clock. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http:/…
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(Matt Monday): 7 Crucial Steps to LET GO and MOVE ON From Someone
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25:34What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new episode, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if …
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Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out? Yep, it’s totally normal. Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact…
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275: 3 Levels Of Confidence That Define Your Life (W/ Ed Mylett)
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28:35I had so many amazing conversations while promoting my new book "Love Life" in 2024, and this month I want to share some clips from a few of my favorites with you. In this conversation, I talk to entrepreneur and best selling author Ed Mylett (@EdMylett) about the model for REAL self-love (and why it's so difficult), how to achieve both outer confi…
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(Matt Monday): Don't Fall Into A One-Sided Relationship. Do This...
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14:57Have you ever been in a one-sided relationship? Where you are always giving more and the other person takes your effort for granted? And looking back, has this pattern always existed? In today’s episode, I get to the bottom of what’s really going on, and how you can connect to your value and speak your needs. Whether you’re struggling with insecuri…
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It’s happened to the best of us. The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?” Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out. Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it…
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274: My Biggest Life Lessons From 2024
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46:00In this special episode, as we come into the final month of the year, I want to sit down and share some of my personal thoughts and lessons from 2024. Whatever challenges or struggles you've gone through this year, I hope this encourages you do your own reflection of the last 12 months and gives you a few helpful steps you can take into 2025. Take …
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(Matt Monday): Why It Feels Nearly Impossible to Leave a Narcissist
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23:42Why does it feel nearly impossible to leave a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in a narcissistic relationship (whether it be romantic, a friendship, or a family member) you know how hard it is to leave. In today's episode, I dive into this subject . . . and how to avoid the common traps that often keep us stuck in these toxic dynamics. ►► Never Face…
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Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze every message they sent with your friends. You’d worry when they went silent for several hours, constantly checking your phone, looking for signs of hope. Suddenly, you become a person you weren’t before: needy, anxious, possessive—and you …
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273: How to Stop Yourself Over-investing in Early Dating
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48:12Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response). In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find th…
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(Matt Monday): 6 Signs They’re Serious About You
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24:28How do you find out where you really stand with someone? It's often hard figuring out how someone else sees your relationship potential, and finding the answer early on can save you a lot of time and unnecessary heartbreak. In today’s episode, I share 6 ways to know if someone is serious about you, no matter which stage of dating you’re in. By the …
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What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break? You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them? In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to. If you’re in this situation, or you ever want t…
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272: "My Partner Reconnected With Their Ex...Should I Be Worried?"
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41:44Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being unreasonable, or are you? In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the nuances of having friendships with your ex, when to see it as a problem, and how to have honest conversations that set your boun…
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(Matt Monday): 7 Reasons You’ll Never Get Closure From a Narcissist
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18:38The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do anything right in their eyes. And if they break up with you? It only leaves you with more confusion. So what’s the right move in this situation? Should we stand up to them? Try to convince them with fa…
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It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t learned to manage. “But doesn’t love solve everything?” Well, not exactly. What often happens is that these toxic patterns slowly undermine every chance at love we find (or at least make the search much…
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(Matt Monday): How to Stop Obsessing in Early Dating
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21:01How do you stop obsessing over someone you’ve recently started dating? When someone seems to tick all our boxes, it can be hard to NOT become flooded with thoughts of a possible future together. We anxiously wait for their text. We put them on a pedestal . . . and as a result, potentially push them away. In this week’s episode, I share 5 things you…
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Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them. We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation. We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that s…
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