Following from the recent video of Diddy beating Cassie to a pulp as she tried to run away in 2016, these are my thoughts on what Africans consider love when it is actually abuse.

Using two instances from Twitter, this is why I vehemently challenge the Nigerian concept of "wisdom" that encouraged dishonesty and abuse of power for personal gain.

This podcast lays out the intellectual issues arising from the icon that Idris has become. A single person out of 300 million citizens that ignites conversations on morality, ethics, sexuality, criminal law and freedom of expression. And all he did was put on make up.

This is about the worst flu I have ever battled, which is still ongoing as spring arrives here in the UK, a quick rave on the gestures for the Honor Pad 9, and the anti-Igbo bigotry holding sway in Yoruba Internet community.

My take on the key headlines of the day.

When whatever you do stops being fun, people either settle for the life they have or insist on pursuing the life they always wanted no matter how far off the track they have gone.

Spent all night composing my very own podcast intros. Use headphones. Don’t hate the player. Record labels need to sign me before I become too expensive.

How is there no outrage for the children that have been kidnapped this past week? Are Nigerians now numb to trauma as a coping mechanism? So we think everything is politics? Have we lost our humanity?

Discussing your real worth and extracting value from the worth you ignore.

This is my review of the new Usher era. His branding, his new album and THAT Superbowl performance. The Nigerian groove elevated this new album and RUIN is my absolute favourite.

This is a tongue in cheek overview of Nigerians and the kind of annoying questions they ask their friends during gists. And a warning to my friends to desist from trying it with me going forward.

Here are 5 reasons why you can't see your New Year Resolutions through.

This episode is dedicated to those who cannot find the festive spirit this Christmas. You are normal. You are loved. It will get better. Merry Different Kind of Christmas to you.

This is me comparing Christmas over the years and across Nigeria versus UK then delving into the key question of whether you can consider your work colleagues as your friends.

What would I say if I had to motivate you?

Here's my thoughts on Christmas over spend and this new generations trend of not giving the dead or religious leaders a pass. Why do you think this changed?

This is my November Update. Not a lot different has happened but progress is a long journey.

These incremental changes by phone companies needs to be called out.

This is my take on why lasting powers of attorney are important. Good intentions alone do not absolve you from liability. Even if you saved my life I will still collect my money back.

Here's my thought on if it's okay to not get along with your best friend's spouse. And how to handle it.

This is my first podcast with a guest star and fellow Youtuber, Topzy. As old friends we decided to discuss our divergent views on today’s key national topics with best intentions and good humour. He is an eternal optimist and runs the YouTube channel #LifeSeriesWithTAID

This is one of my “things that never happened” stories that reminds me why I never take sides when personal issues become public between lovers and family members.

Many young people have fallen for the glamourized stereotype of an autocratic CEO. They have watched too many movies and think all it takes is to boss people around. This is to highlight the responsibility that comes with it and the need for humility to course correct.

This is a simplistic explanation on how a Nigerian migrant processes this proposed increase in UK visa fees and health surcharge.

Omo that's how I have been representing Nigerians here by keeping it real. Real village man.

This is my attitude to phases of life that seem to go on for too long. When I feel stagnant and have tried everything, I ask God for help with the lessons I’m supposed to learn so I can move forward.

My fond memories of High Chief Raymond Dokpesi and his impact on Nigerian media’s evolution. His investment changed TV and Radio forever, leading many of us to westernisation that others copy today. Bless his soul.

This is my observation of ChatGPT and the different approaches to it. It is not going anywhere so the earlier you embrace it the better for you.

I attempt to explain why the age old rivalry between parents and first born children will continue from one generation to the next.

My take on why the proposed doctor’s relocation embargo in Nigeria should be given a dispassionate rethink and how a terrible idea can come from a good place.

Documenting the very vivid dreams I had overnight. The recurrent theme in both dreams was being involved in things that were not my business. Both unwillingly. Felt like I was watching a movie.

Just me ranting about Spotify changing the name of my favourite podcasting app from Anchor. It was perfectly working and the name had immense goodwill. Anyways…

Once again the “Europe is so hard so clap for me” whiners have struck. Everyday is a new video telling Nigerians in Nigeria to respect you for staying in Europe. It’s enough.

Why una dey fear Bachelorhood Certificate? Whether you sign it or not you go still cast last last.

This is my take on loan and debt. Should you take loans? When, why and how should you handle a default?

A simple explanation for the groundswell of support for the candidacy of Peter Obi in Nigeria's 2023 elections.

Based on my recent experience opening an online store, I’m focused today on reminding you to always read the fine print. They never seem important until you’re in too deep to get out.

There’s this entitlement to parental support that is pervasive in people born in the 2000’s where they have zero empathy for their parents struggle to provide for them. It’s very different from 80’s kids who always felt that everything the parents did for them was a favour and undeserved. Where do you fall under?…

Explaining the concept of external validation and the consequences. Why it happens and what you need to do.

Here’s my wish for the new year! Fun fun fun fun and more fun!

Find people who are further ahead on the same path you’re on and ask them to show you the ropes. The people around you are either letting you feel like you’re doing great in your mediocrity or inspiring you to want more. That’s your task for next year: find the right people and dream a new dream.

There’s a place for each one but they must not be confused as the same thing. Hyping yourself up cannot have the same effect as asking God to intervene. It’s the same difference between children pointing to things they want without asking properly with please and thank you. There’s an age you let it pass and an age you won’t. Doesn’t mean the child…

A whole Lagosian like me fell for a fake website and got defrauded of 100 pounds. Had to block my credit cards etc etc E pain me die. Yahoo Boys 1: Roqzee 0

Resist the Christmas marketing hype. You can do without that extra new dress and you will survive if you don’t go for that concert. If the trends continue, you will need a lot more money and face a higher cost of living in the new year. Let’s be rational. Or just ignore me and say YOLO ✌️

A quick summary of where to begin and what it takes to go to school in the UK. Just paying it forward.

A bit of an update on where I am and what I’ve been up to plus my thoughts on how to maintain your friendships through election season

Now that courts are giving 20 year jail terms, does continuing Yahoo make sense? Not that it ever did but now more than ever why are people still doing it?

This post discusses the unwritten Nigerian rule in many cultures that your very first salary or income as an adult must be given to your parents to share amongst your older relatives. Do you do it in your family? And what’s the rationale?

Is a wife entitled to replace things her husband’s mother gave him before they got married? Or is that a sign of hatred for her mother-in-law?

This is the context to my disagreement with the “don’t ask God to take away battles, ask him for strength to fight them instead”. I was not put on earth to spend my life fighting battles, there’s better things to do. And I will ask God for those better things.