There are a lot of strong voices and heated opinions being thrown around on the Internet. Opinions about politics. Suffering. Injustices. Current events. And, of course, FAITH. Faith seems to always be at the center of any debate. But in the midst of all the noise and vitriol, what we don’t have enough of is connection. Tight and unflinching relationship. The kind of relationship that loves a good conversation and isn’t the least bit afraid of differences. The kind where we can circle up and ...
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Podcast Episode 15: A God Who We Can Experience With Each Other
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Here we are friends, walking the final few steps of our Relentless journey together- looking for the presence of God in the midst of our suffering, and what a road it has been! But we have just one more thing to wrestle with… How do we, as a chosen people, a holy priesthood, a royal nation, which has been called out of darkness and into marvelous l…
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Podcast Episode 14: A God Whose Presence Lives in You
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Have you ever had a friend message you exactly what you needed to hear at the perfect moment? A few years ago, I received word that a friend I’d journeyed through Cancer simultaneously with had just been admitted into hospice care. It took my breath away. I was mourning in the mountains, when a friend messaged me this: “To inspire someone is way mo…
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 13: A God Who Is With You in Pain, Suffering, and Death
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“Suffering is a great unifier, because all of us experience it and it puts all of us on the same ground. It’s also the great divider because it forces us to choose. We cannot stay neutral when dealing with suffering. We either have to believe in God even more or we have to reject him completely. There’s no middle ground.” When asked why they don’t …
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Relentless Podcast Episode 12: A God Who is With You in Your Hunger
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“I’m staaaaaarving.” Anyone else’s kiddos claim this on a regular basis? In July of 2011, we received a phone call that would change our lives forever. Three little kids, whose mama couldn’t care for them anymore, needed a home. Twenty-four hours later we picked them up and brought them home as our own. For their first meal in their new home I had …
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Relentless Podcast Eps 11: A God Who is With You in the Process
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Have you ever walked into a room and felt completely out of place? Like somehow there was something inherently flawed about you? That for some reason you just did not belong? Perhaps it’s happened to you from within a room you were even invited into. This room could’ve been real- a home, an office, a church, but it also could’ve been figurative- Fa…
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Podcast Episode 10: A God Who is With You In Your Doubt
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I love math. Always have. Just today, I felt a small thrill when my kids returned from school (AKA their computers in the kitchen, thankyouCovid) with a math problem they needed my assistance with. The reason? An equation is straightforward, solvable, with a clear conclusion. I wish faith were more like algebra. Instead, faith sometimes reminds me …
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Relentless Podcast Episode 9: A God Who is with You in Your Humanity
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Chemo and radiation were complete, and I was hopeful I could finally enjoy a long-overdue meeting with my counselor, a little too hopeful… It was approximately ten minutes into the session when it happened. I puked. First on her office carpet; next, into her very cute, very permeable wicker wastebasket. I apologized profusely while she graciously r…
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Relentless Podcast Episode 8: A God Who is With You When You Reach the End of Yourself
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“Is there more than just shame at the end of this rope?” It had been an exceptionally hard day, and coming from someone battling Cancer for the third time, that was really saying something. Treatment had been especially brutal, and I was in desperate need of support. I logged onto Facebook, and posted a simple request for prayer from my community, …
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 7: When Church Leaders Fail
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I thought they’d come to offer compassion and support. Instead, they’d come to criticize and correct. I was desperate for comfort, maybe some wisdom or guidance. What I received was something quite different. When I look back on that day, the memories still feel painful. I am no longer the young girl I once was. And yet these church leaders whom I’…
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 6: “Lost in the wilderness without a canteen…”
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I remember it like it was yesterday… Certain memories seem to play in technicolor. These are the ones you can see, smell, feel for years. Where the terror hangs heavy and every hair on your body stands at attention. Physical trauma has a way of marking our memories in this way, and surprisingly enough, emotional trauma sure can hold its own, too. T…
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 5: “For the one who can’t see past the pain…”
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Confession: I am far crueler to myself in my own head than I would ever dare be to a friend. Anyone else? Who are you to lead anyone else when you can barely lead your own family? Who are you to speak up when someone else could say it better? Who are you to preach God’s grace when you struggle to simply love your own people? Do the questions accusa…
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 4: A God Who Promises To Be With You
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Wouldn’t it be nice if all of our shared experiences were about how much we all love Ice cream? Aisle 7… Or Pop-Tarts? Aisle 3… Or puppies? Wrong store… If the only things to relate over included the words sunshine or sandy beaches or mountain getaway? Instead, I’m willing to bet that if you’re old enough to read this, you’ve been around long enoug…
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 3: What to believe when, “Everything happens for a reason” is no longer reason enough.
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There it was again. That phrase. The one intended to bring comfort in a time of chaos. “Everything happens for a reason.” They mean well, I tell myself again. Sometimes our pain proves too heavy for loved ones to hold; so they shift under the weight, reaching for the nearest phrase that seems to tie the bloody up with a bow. But what if there aren’…
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Relentless Podcast, Episode 2: I’m not okay right now.
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How many times have you heard the words fall from your mouth? “…I’m fine.” Even just today? As the crack splinters a little further through the chambers of your breaking heart, threatening its very foundation. As the next breath threatens not to come. As the husband walks out, the roommate makes yet another passive aggressive remark, the child slam…
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Season 2: Relentless | Episode 01: Welcome
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Have you ever found yourself buried by darkness? Sitting on the floor weighted down by a darkness you can feel, arms wrapped tightly around your knees, wondering how much longer you have before all the oxygen is siphoned from the room? Do you know the place? The one where the pain in your chest meets the ache of your weary soul and you wonder deep …
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Eps 8: 4 Steps to Tackle Criticism
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We all have those moments. We get the text, the email, the Facebook message with someone who shares their unsolicited advice, criticism and opinions. It hurts. It exposes. It doesn't feel good. But then we have a choice. We can choose WHAT we do with that message. Here are the four steps you can use to tackle criticism.…
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Episode 7: 5 Necessary Skills to Learn How to Listen
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We all need to learn how to listen better. I've never met someone who has perfected the art of listening to everyone in their life. Usually we do well with some people and fail with others. Learn with me today as I share the five necessary skills needed to learn how to listen.
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Episode 06: The Single Most Important Strategy to Diffuse a Charged Situation
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From all my experiences and research, today I share the single most important strategy to help you diffuse a charged situation (which you will probably be able to use today).
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Episode 05: Ash Wednesday, Lent, and Savoring the Divine
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Today I talk about a newer tradition and perspective for me involving Ash Wednesday, Lent and savoring the divine.
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Episode 04: When Fear Has You By The Throat: 5 Steps To Get You Through
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Listen in as I discuss how to deal with fear and the five steps to get you through. Friend, whatever led you to land here, I need you to know something before you go: ONE, you’re not alone. Not even close. You don’t need to clean up, buck up, or pull yourself together. We’re a bunch of in-progress people doing our best to find meaning, growth and d…
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Two Tiny Words That Hold the Power To Reframe Failure
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Whatever led you to land here, I need you to know something before you go: ONE, you’re not alone. Not even close. You don’t need to clean up, buck up, or pull yourself together. We’re a bunch of in-progress people doing our best to find meaning, growth and deeper faith exactly where we are. That means you belong. And TWO, you matter. Your story. Yo…
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The Kindness Factor: The One Practice Your Life and Leadership Cannot Live Without
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Although some view Kindness as meek or weak, practicing kindness—especially with those you don't deserve it—can be some of the hardest and most rewarding work you do. Rather than say something about the recipient, kindness reveals the character of the giver. Today I give you five EASY kindness practices that can help you develop this skill in you d…
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Four Steps to Facing Down Shame
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Part of the human experience is discovering that, in spite of your best efforts, you are flawed, wounded, imperfect. Although you do your best to put forward your best front, behind the scenes there is likely something you feel embarrassed about, maybe even ashamed of. Whatever it is—your appearance, a regret, a disability—shame will try to convinc…
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