If you've ever been in a relationship--romantic or plantonic--you understand the effort it takes to create a vibe! Join us weekly, as the Effort and Vibes crew share personal stories where there maybe wasn’t enough effort or the vibes were not strong! Chop it up with us and an occasional guest as we discuss family, friends, culture, sex, and everything trending on Twitter; nothing is off-limits! We share our honest--sometimes too honest--perspective of the world and try to provide tips that ...
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EP 22: Quarantine Edition
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The crew practices social distancing and decided to pod via Skype, to share their experiences during the quarantine. Tune in to hear how the crew is adjusting and how they find time to themselves when everyone is home! The pod was recorded on March 21st, at which the CDC reported 24,583 cases of Covid-19 in the United States. It has not even been t…
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EP 21: #BITCHESWHOPOD
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What has shaped you in becoming the person you are today? This week, Effort and Vibes explores gender roles and where they come from. The crew breakdown why you should avoid threesomes during the coronavirus outbreak and share how they always seem to get naked in Maine. Tati and Zay share their love for Boston’s first city dispensary: Pure Oasis. T…
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EP 20: P.O.C Time is a Real Thing!
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Time is money! Or is it? This week, Effort and Vibes talk about timeliness, when to leave the function and how long may be too long when holding a grudge. Viruses: if you’re under 30, you’ve been faced with every scary illness and the media hysteria that comes with it. The crew share their thoughts on some of the misinformation around the Coronavir…
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EP 19: We Earned This Cool!
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This week, Effort and Vibes talk Black History Month and their experiences being Black year round. The crew recap their Valentine’s Day festivities and Tati and Zay share how they know no one is smoking outside in Chicago right now. They discuss The Photograph starring Issa Rae and LaKeith Stanfield and the importance of black love on screen to ass…
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EP 18: Take Your Dongs That Way!
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This week we're elevating the vibes and talking about love and all things Valentine's Day! The crew talks "Afrochella" and retracing their African heritage. Have you heard of "wrist-bending?" Zay explains your new favorite slang. The E&V crew make it law, that if no one swag surfs when "Swag Surfin" drops, your party is whack...straight up *Travis …
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Effort and Vibes dedicate this week's episode to Kobe Bryant and his influence on our adolescence. The crew share the affect of Kobe's passing and the process of grief, while exploring how to navigate those feelings for someone you didn't know personally. They share their favorite Kobe moments, reflect on those lunchroom and school bus debates and …
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EP 16: Carpool Karaoke is FAKE?!
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This week, the crew share their experiences in support of Advesa (tune in to learn more about Advesa!) and attending town hall meetings. Tati suggests that smaller cars be invented in 2021 to help with traffic. Find out what a "doula" is and if it's covered by your health insurance. Tae shares a scary story and why it's important to always wash you…
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EP 15: The Decade of Sidekicks & Side Pieces!
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We are BACK from the hiatus! The crew share all the things between our bonus episode and bring you our very anticipated season two. Have some 2020 resolutions on your list? Tune in to hear how we reset throughout January, while keeping ourselves accountable and goals attainable. Find out which of our hosts have been working on their own goals of en…
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BONUS: Who Ruined Your Open Bar?
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Did you miss us?! The crew come back together in between seasons to provide a special bonus episode! We break down our Friendsgiving festivities and a special E&V trip to see Sir’s show in the city. Tae talks concert etiquette and why you shouldn’t be in the front row if you don't know the lyrics. Planning a vacay during the holiday break? Zay shar…
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EP 13: B.Y.O.V--Bring Your Own Vibes!
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Tis the holiDAYZ! We break down how to prep for your next Friendsgiving, while providing some tips on how to keep your cool during those infamous moments around the dinner table. Are Ritz crackers a cop out at the potluck? The crew try to determine the algorithm for what food to avoid and what to add to your to go plate. We share what to do when yo…
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EP 12: If It's Free, It's for Me!
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The crew share their confusion around T.I. and the controversial gynecologist appointments. Conspiracy Jay tries to explain the latest Voyager news to his fellow Podders. Are those on the Millennium tour cancelled by association if R. Kelly wrote their songs? We talk open and honest about having a hard time cancelling artists for their problematic …
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EP 11: It's My Birthday! Cashapp Me!
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What's probably the coolest thing about adulting? Buying your own gifts! This week, we throw it back to the bougie telly parties, the sweet sixteens and what childhood celebrations may have played a role in the crew's birthday evolution. We share our love for John "Pops" Witherspoon for his contribution as everyone's "Pop," and to our teenage humor…
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EP 10: I AIN'T NEVER SCARED!!
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This week, E&V talk the most anticipated season and its real spooooky! We share some of our favorite costumes and vibes that get us ready to turn up. The crew break down why karma's a bitch when you used to egg houses as a kid. Javon and Tae share his escape of near death at the scariest haunted attraction in North America. Tati talks about a magic…
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EP 9: Cannabis is Our Favorite Adult Vegetable!
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This week, we talk about what we do to wind down, and what album passes the headphones and car test. We break down why reviewing your vibes and date nights are keys to a happy life! The crew reminisces on those landline phone calls and why open vulnerability with your people is cool as F*ck! Want to add some sexy to the bedroom? Find out why and ho…
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EP 8: Collecting Cans Builds Character!
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Zay talks how important it is to catch a vibe with your therapist and keeps us up with the latest lingo. Javon gives us the definition of "Magnanimous," and reminds us that we are rare and a work-in-progress! Tae let's us know why it's all about delivery when having tough talks with your friends. Tati recounts why collecting cans before trash day w…
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EP 7: Happy Fall Motherf*ckers!
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Fall just started and Tati is already tired of the pumpkin phase! Zay talks repurposing boxers and "if they work, they work!" Jay and Tae talk about the magic that comes with cooking with your partner and the importance of being offline. The crew talks love languages and we let you know which of our co-hosts constantly needs to be touched! They bre…
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EP 6: You Need to Re-Grow Up!
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From now on, Tati is referred to as Dr.Benjamin and Zay explains why she's a Witch Doctor. Tae vents about Javon's annoying eating habits when they watch a movie and how Javon will not watch a movie that will make him cry. Is the junk drawer hereditary? We all know you have one! E&V switches it up this week to talk about childhood, generational hab…
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EP 5: What's Incognito Mode?
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Javon watched that episode of "Black Mirror" and didn't think of Zay...sure. Zay and Tati are done on their wedding tour and explain the meaning behind giving someone a two-slot toaster or a four-slot toaster. When you meet someone new, is it weird to get their social media handles instead of their phone number? Tae breaks it down and explains why …
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EP 4: What's in your Crown Royal Bag?
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Remember that one episode of "Black Mirror" when VR blurred the lines between best friends and lovers? Zay introduces Javon to the VR episode that left us shook! What's the best way to remember someone's name and get their number? Tati explains why you should always ask them to spell out their name. We talk about our much anticipated event...The Mi…
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EP 3: We're NOT in a Polyamorous Relationship!
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Does your neighborhood have sidewalks? Hang on, we have a theory about this! Have you heard of Mount Ida College? Yeah, neither have we. Can your college degree go up in prestige? The crew takes it back to college to reminisce the moment they met. Is it okay to mix your friend groups? What's it like to meet your partner's co-workers? In this episod…
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EP 2: A T*tty Bounce House!?
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How old is too old to be in the club? What's a t*tty bounce house!? What's your code word when you're trying to tell your partner it's time to leave the party? Effort and Vibes is getting ready for our annual "End of Summer" Party and we discuss the effort it takes to curate a vibe as we get older!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spo…
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We catch up and let everyone know what we’ve been up to since our beginning days at the Barbertime Network! Is Mukbang sexual? What’s up with Chick-fil-A and Popeyes? What happens when your significant other gets into a brawl in another country and you don’t hear from them!? In this episode, we get into it all!--- Send in a voice message: https://p…
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Allow us to reintroduce ourselves! Get a taste of what we’re all about and stay tuned for weekly content!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/effort-and-vibes/message
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