Welcome to the world of Trooth Be Told where nothing is off limits. Join co-host Trooth ,DJ Crispin, Tall Can Javie and friends as they discus Love, Relationships, Sex, Life, Death and everything in between. Giving it all to you very raw and uncensored with their version of the TROOTH. so join us and Lets Get Nasty... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/trooth-be-told/support
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Hi I'm Dr. Kat Van Kirk, board certified Clinical Sexologist and licensed Marriage and Sex Therapist. Join my gay boyfriend, Ross Martineau and I on the couch with a cocktail as we dish about sex and relationships. We answer your questions about sex, dating, marriage, STDs, sex ed, and the trials and tribulations of life and love...along with a little celebrity gossip. It's a two-fer as your questions are answered from both of our perspectives. We have more fun than we should, so join us! Fi ...
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Wendy Conquest, Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattuone, and Tim Stein invite guests to join an ongoing conversation about sex, addiction, and relationships. Wendy, Dan, Jeanne, and Tim are experts in the fields of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and trauma resolution.
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Velcro Love: A Podcast About Attachment Theory, Relationships, Therapy, and Sex This podcast is place where we discuss all things attachment theory and relationships and therapy and sex. These are some of the questions that we address on the podcast: - Why is the podcast called "Velcro Love"? (Hint: Because Velcro holds things together tightly, but it not rigid) - What is Attachment Theory and why is it so important? - What is Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and why is is so great and so h ...
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Stacey has been a phone sex operator for more than 17 years and has heard every fantasy imaginable. Need advice on a sexual fetish, asking someone out, dealing with a lost love, heartbreak, weird sex experience, or anything else you can think of? You can’t shock Stacey, she’s been a virtual “therapist” for 17 years for her clients. ***not a license therapist
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Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? And if you're ready to do the work, come work with us -- we'd love to have you: www.e ...
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Young & Holmes: Celebrity Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Commitment, Affairs, Breakups, and Divorce
Julius Young & Kimberly Holmes: Entertainment Journalist & Relationship Expert
Want to know the story behind the celebrity couple? We unpack the latest news about celebrity relationships and analyze what they teach us about love, sex, commitment, marriage, and our own lives.
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Right to REAL Love: Advice for Christian Women on Dating, Relationships, Men and Sex
J. Immanuel helps Christian women understand men, dating and relationships
The #1 dating and relationship podcast for Christian women and Women of Faith where I provide you with an honest single man of faith's perspective on dating, relationships and men. I keep it biblical, practical and real.
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Sex Addiction Therapists Get Real
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In this episode, they provide insight into how we balance empathy, accountability, and challenge while working with addicts. We explore the complexities of detecting deception, handling relapses, and creating safe spaces for clients to share their struggles. This candid conversation offers a deep dive into the nuances of therapy for sex addiction a…
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328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney)
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"For so long I felt like, ‘this is only happening in my marriage.’" If you've ever experienced something dark, difficult, or deeply challenging in your love relationship, *and didn't feel like you could talk about it with others,* you'll relate to this episode. Few topics bring up wounds as deep as betrayal. Whether you've experienced a partner che…
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Send us a text Have you ever farted on or near someone and realized you liked it? Or been farted on and it turned you on? Well you aren't alone! Meet Matty, our farter for the day who will be discussing fart fetishes with us! Don't forget to shoot us an email if you have questions or ideas for episodes! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!…
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Working with sex addicts can be deeply challenging but also incredibly rewarding. In this discussion, we share our experiences and perspectives on why we are passionate about this specialty. The work isn't just about addressing sexual dysfunction or relational issues; it's about guiding people through their journey of healing, transformation, and s…
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The discussion also touches on balancing empathy with accountability. While it's important to avoid shaming the client, it's equally essential not to minimize their relapse. The approach includes both encouragement and challenge, analyzing what happened and identifying steps to prevent future relapses. The goal is to help clients harness feelings o…
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Mailbag: Relapse and Recovery With Sex Addiction
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Today’s mailbag episode tackles a complex question from a listener about relapse and recovery. The question revolves around the pain of discovering a partner’s hidden sex addiction and the struggle with the concept that relapse is part of recovery. We explore whether relapse is acceptable or justifiable, discuss the impact on partners, and delve in…
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327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)
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What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings that you fear others would judge if they knew about? Is it your yearning for love, your desire to be held or seen or known in some fundamental way? Many of the biggest breakthroughs we've witnessed in clients have come when they've heade…
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Would the treatment for sex addiction differ if most addicts were women instead of men? Clinically, the model remains the same for both genders, holding all addicts to the same standards of recovery. However, societal perceptions often differ, giving different leniencies to men and women. While the treatment approach focuses on ""progress, not perf…
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In our latest discussion, we explore the complex issue of addiction, relapse, and recovery, particularly in the context of sex addiction. The central question is whether it is ""okay"" for a sex addict to cause harm to their partner and family, with the justification that ""relapse is part of recovery."" While relapse may occur for some addicts, it…
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Technology's Influence on Relationships
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Join us for an insightful discussion on the double-edged sword of technology in today's world, featuring Tim Stein, Jeannie Vittoni, Dan Drake, and Wendy Conquest. In this episode, we dive into how technology shapes our lives and relationships, the impact it has on our brain chemistry and development, and the challenges we face in staying truly con…
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326: GuyTalk: How do you overcome a sexual challenge (like premature ejaculation)? [REPLAY]
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Ever experienced porn addiction (and had that affect your love relationship), contended with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, or been worried about what your cock looks like? Then you'll feel right at home with this episode. Here, several men in our community share their unvarnished truth with their own voices. They forthrightly and v…
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Did you know that 39% of Americans report feeling lonely or lacking significant relationships? In today's episode, we explore the growing sense of isolation and disconnection many of us feel in our technology-driven world. From walking our dogs while glued to our phones to missing out on real-life interactions, we're slowly burying ourselves in our…
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Have you ever thought about how often you reach for your phone daily? In this episode, we dive into our growing attachment to technology—phones, computers, and beyond. Stay tuned for our future episode.Door Timzi9
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325: What if *every* woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange)
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Do you wish your woman was more open to sex? Not just intercourse, but the fun of the whole sex thing -- kissing, making out, foreplay, getting hot and heavy, doing the dirty. Ever longed for more from your wife/girlfriend/partner when it comes to sexuality -- and not just "from her" but with her? Ever wished she had more fun when it came to sex, t…
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324: What does it mean to open a woman? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Ever been around a woman who was closed down, shut off, or emotionally unavailable? Ever felt like your partner wanted to say something but was holding back, and if you'd somehow shown up in a different way, maybe she'd have let you in? Perhaps you've felt some version of, "I can’t handle that anger right now so I need to remove that anger from her…
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323: How do 12-step programs connect to healthy relationships? (ft. Mark Wilde)
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"When I was at my worst, I didn’t know there was a way out." Sometimes in life we get stuck. We don't know how to deal with big feelings, so we self-medicate -- with alcohol, or porn, or weed, or food. But often the self-medication gets in the way of things we really want -- love; intimacy; healthy, connected sex; joy. You may think of 12-step prog…
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322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay]
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Has your woman ever been in her masculine, and you wished she was in her feminine? Here's something that doesn't work: "Hey, could you drop into your feminine already?" ;) So how do you polarize your woman well? Polarity is one of those mysteries in life like electricity: We don't fully grasp why it works, but we can harness its power to make our l…
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Interview with Yes Ma'am - Phone Sex Operator
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Send us a text Today's interview is with Yes Ma'am, a phone sex operator with PleasurePlaypen.com. Are you submissive? She may be someone you're interested in talking to! Or maybe you'll learn something new! Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREE Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may rec…
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Healing From Sexual Betrayal with Dr. Barbara Steffens, PhD, BCC, CCPS, CPC
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Today, we are thrilled to host Barbara Steffens, a trailblazer in betrayal trauma research. Barbara shares her groundbreaking PhD study, which revealed that nearly 70% of betrayed partners met the criteria for PTSD. Discover how her work has reshaped the understanding of betrayal trauma and the treatment of affected partners. Don't miss this insigh…
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321: 'I’m afraid to show interest until I’m willing to commit' (ft. Jason Lange)
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Have you ever been concerned about getting involved with a woman because you didn't want to hurt her feelings if it didn't work out? Ever felt like you shouldn't go deeper emotionally with a woman you were dating because you weren't sure you wanted to put a ring on it? Does it ever feel like all women want a long-term, committed relationship, so if…
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Quick Conversations: How Is Trauma Recognized In Betrayed Partners with Dr. Barbara Steffens, PhD, BCC, CCPS, CPC
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In this video, we explore the early days of recognizing trauma in betrayed partners, particularly focusing on the impact of infidelity. Dr. Barbara Steffens shares her journey, highlighting the anxiety and determination she felt while presenting their groundbreaking work around 2006-2008. Stay tuned for our upcoming full-length video soon.…
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Quick Conversations: What Happens To Partners Who Were Betrayed & Experience Trauma with Dr. Barbara Steffens, PhD, BCC, CCPS, CPC
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In our latest episode, we speak on the groundbreaking PhD study that explores whether partners who were betrayed experienced trauma and to what degree. With a background in trauma and crisis intervention, we discuss with Dr. Barbara Steffens, PhD, BCC, CCPS, CPC, a researcher set out to understand this dynamic beyond the traditional labels of co-ad…
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320: From breakdown to breakthrough: how to recover from trauma (ft. Jason Lange)
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If you’ve become aware that you experienced developmental trauma (and/or attachment wounding), you may wonder how to heal from it. Where do you go to move through stuck parts of yourself that are holding you back? How do you get things moving and release blocks so you can finally get what you want in sex, dating, and relationships? Jason was a self…
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319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange)
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Ever felt like when it comes to your relationship, you're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop? Or that when you come home, you don't know what (or who) you're going to get? Or that every moment is, "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" Reality check: It is not normal to be constantly on guard or anxious in your relationship. That k…
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318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!?
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Ever wanted to explore role-play in sex? If so, you're not alone! According to research, one in three people in North America alone wants to try some kind of role-play in the bedroom, whether that's doctor/patient, professor/student, cop/detainee, pirate/wench or some other sexy dynamic. Why is sexual role-play so intriguing? Is it different from k…
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317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange)
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"It felt kind of like a trap, but at the same time felt like a soothing warm blanket to feel safe and ruminate within." "The codependent relationship is filled with drama. There is blaming, a victim and the rescuer/protector. That rescuer is filled with needing to be needed. That’s where it began for me." "It was years of trying as hard as I could …
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316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
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Did you have a deeply present, emotionally aware father who took the time to attune to you and teach you how to be a trustworthy, integrated man? If so, you're in the minority. ;) Most of our clients had far-less-than-ideal role models when it came to the masculine -- which makes becoming a trustable adult man challenging. For example, do you feel …
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Episode 67: Because I'm A Big Girl
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We hope you enjoy our latest episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/trooth-be-told/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/trooth-be-told/support
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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover)
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There's a lot out there about Nice Guy Syndrome. But what happens after? What is the magical land of Boundaries, for example? If you’ve figured out you’re a Nice Guy, you’ve likely been in a love relationship or two (or five) where you felt like your partner walked all over you, or where you developed resentment after overextending yourself. Or per…
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Conversations: Betrayal Violence with Hope Raye
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Welcome to Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships with Dan Drake and guests Wendy Conquest, Jeannie Vittone, and Tim Stein. Today, they delve into the challenging topic of betrayal violence with therapist and magazine creator Hope Ray. Hope introduces the concept, defining betrayal violence as a complex dynamic involving secrecy, repeat…
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Episode 66: Adjusting My Standards
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Join us this week as Trooth, is finally joined by Javie and Rachel & Dulce from Dear Father along with "Crowd Control" and catch up on everything from Javies and Dulce's pregnancy announcements and so much more! Please Comment any and all feedback! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/trooth-be-told/messageSupport th…
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In this insightful conversation, Hope Ray discusses her work with men in a support group called Getting Dire Straight, where they delve into sensitive topics like male entitlement and misogyny.Door Timzi9
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314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero)
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Ever contended with anxiety, depression, chronic pain, ADHD, or OCD ... and had that affect your sex or love life? Ever suspected that you have generational trauma, or thought you were broken? Ever felt like there was something wrong with you because you just can't seem to get it together when it comes to relationships? Spoiler alert: There is noth…
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Quick Conversations: What are the dynamics of relationships affected by addiction and betrayal?
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In this episode, we speak with special guest Hope Ray on the dynamics of power and control in relationships affected by addiction and betrayal. We discuss how withholding essential information creates a power imbalance and restricts a partner's agency, ultimately leading to exploitation and harm. The conversation emphasizes the importance of transp…
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Conversations: Dating After A Break Up
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In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we discuss the topic of dating for partners after a relationship ends. We explore the challenges faced by partners when relationships don't work out, emphasizing the lack of conversation and support for those navigating life after a breakup or divorce.…
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