Join host, Lilada Gee – a warrior, healer, community mother, (but certainly not a singer) - in gripping conversations committed to highlighting the experiences and stories of Black girls and women. As an unapologetic voice in defense of Black girls, meet her at the frontlines each week discussing topics that most impact our girls in their homes, schools, and communities. You will not want to miss one single, fearless conversation! Subscribe to lilada.org to stay updated! And to help support ...
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What Are Things I Wished My Mama Told Me?
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Is there something you wish your Mama told you? In our final throwback episode from her days at WORT 89.9 FM, Lilada Gee asks: What is some of the best advice your mama ever gave you?, What should Black mamas teach their Black daughters?, and more! For more information about Lilada Gee and her work, visit Lilada.org and subscribe to her mailing lis…
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Who Was Fannie Lou Hamer and Other Black Women of the Civil Rights Movement?
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In our next "throwback" episode, Lilada takes a look at her top ten heroines of the Civil Rights movements in honor of Black History Month. Featuring long-time Madison resident and activist, Brandi Grayson. Brandi is the co-founder of Young, Gifted and Black and founder of Urban Triage in Madison, WI. Originally recorded with WORT in Madison, WI Fe…
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Why Do We Need Black Woman Heal Day? Back to Ground Zero
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As we prep for Season 3, we thought it important to not only remember where we started, but how this continues to be relevant today. In "Ground Zero," Lilada Gee passionately advocates for the importance of healing ourselves and how, when we heal the Black girl inside of us, we can better defend Black girlhood to come. In honor of Black Woman Heal …
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What is Black Woman Heal Day?
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Black Woman Heal Day (April 1st) was founded by Lilada Gee with a mission to increase prevention, awareness, and healing efforts of sexual abuse throughout the African Diaspora. This throwback episode begins with Lilada's testimony in surviving childhood sexual abuse and why she started Black Woman Heal Day. Featuring Dr. Alice Belcher, Commissione…
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How Has Faith Shaped Civil Rights? with Rev. Dr. Alexander Gee
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We're not quite back yet, but as we continue to build Season 3, tune into this oldie, but goodie! In this special segment from Lilada Gee's tenure on WORT's 89.9FM "A Public Affair" (2019), she is joined by Reverend Dr. Alexander Gee. Tune in as they discuss the history of Civil Rights in the Black church. Dr. Gee is the Senior Pastor of Fountain o…
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What Do You Mean Season 2 Is Over?!
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We have reached the end of Season 2! In this episode, our host recaps some of the favorite conversations had this season, introduces our new team member and producer - Carla Williams - and previews the exciting conversations to come in Season 3! Also featuring Creative Director, Cassandra Marzette. Subscribe to our newsletter! - Lilada.org We'd lov…
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Can I Love Again After Being Hurt?, Part 2
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In part two, Lilada Gee questions the status quo of what it means to function in a relationship - How are we killing ourselves in a "ride-or-die" dynamic? How does historical trauma creep into our relationships? How can we love again after our hurt? - and more. Featuring the powerful testimonies of Paquita Purnell and Adanze Okoronta and profession…
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Can I Love Again After Being Hurt?, Part 1
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More often than not, those in abusive relationships often teeter on the line of shame and secrecy. Yet, if we've learned anything from the DBG podcast: there's power in your testimony. This week, we hear from two incredible women - Paquita Purnell and Adanze Okoronta - who decided that they'd not only had enough but that they were enough. Also feat…
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Love the Sh*t Out of Yourself!
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As we celebrate Valentine's Day with our loved ones, there is often one person we forget to show the most love to - ourselves! Self-love, or lack thereof, is often the root of the mess created in our lives and is important to master as we work to defend Black girls. This important - and hilarious - conversation with guests Alexandra Gee Lewis, Tama…
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Does Madison Love Black Girls?
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As we enter into primary season in Madison, Wisconsin, our local elections have drawn in a historical number of Black women running for office. This week, join our conversation with 3 powerful candidates for Madison City Council - Jael Currie (District 16), Ayomi Obuseh, (District 8), and Nikki Lee Conklin (District 9) - to learn how their Black gi…
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What is the Next Step?: Moving Forward with Cassy Marzette, part 3
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As we move into part 3 of our "life coach" series with our Creative Director, Cassy Marzette, we are reminded that our mission to defend Black girls often means that we need to defend the little Black girl inside of us - that little girl who has somehow not healed, been traumatized, neglected, etc. and stop us in our adulthood from moving forward. …
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What is the Next Step?: Moving Forward with Cassy Marzette, part 2
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This week we speak with our very own creative director, Cassy Marzette in part 2 of the conversation, "What is the Next Step?" We take the time to explore her creative undertakings as we learn more about the underlying forces she is working to heal and undo. Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would love your support: patreon.com/L…
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Can Black Girls Be Successful in School?
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The mission to defend Black girls is becoming more realized as Black women make history in their run for a seat at the table. This local election season for Dane County, WI boasts more than a dozen Black women running for political office - from school board to judge! Learn how representation and the "Black Mama" persona is imperative in defending …
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Can We Defend Black Girlhoods in This America?
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This week we interrupt our normal defense of Black girls to address the act of domestic terrorist insurrection at our Nation's Capitol. It is clear, now more than ever before, that the violent upsurge of white supremacy only fuels the need for the defense of our Black girls. Tune in as our host challenges, "Can we defend Black girlhoods in this Ame…
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What is the Next Step?: Moving Forward with Cassy Marzette, part 1
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So we’ve started our healing journey, began to embrace, accept, and share our story, but now what? When we feel stuck for so long, it’s often difficult to figure out what’s our next best foot forward. Throughout several weeks, we will begin to explore how our Creative Director, Cassy Marzette, works to become “unstuck” and discovers strategies to b…
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How Can Sharing My Story Save Another?
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Time and time again, we stress the importance of sharing our story - especially the stories of Black girls and women. This is the case for Megan Brown, who reached out after feeling compelled to share her remarkable rise through her trauma, abuse, and sexual assault. Though a difficult conversation, her testimony enforces the importance of our work…
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How Can White Men Help Black Women Heal?
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In defending Black girlhood, it is crucial to understand that Black girls thrive when those with privilege choose to be at the defense of Black girls, too. In this inspiring conversation, Dr. Jesse Maupin - a local white doctor - details his gut-wrenching response to our “Ground Zero” episode and how learning about the experience of Black girls can…
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How Do I Know When I Have Healed?
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When we go through our own personal healing journey, it is inevitable that we encounter the question, “How do I know when I have healed?” For this week’s guest (who will remain anonymous), the question came when she received an unexpected text from her estranged father of over 10 years. Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would lov…
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What Do Black Women Talk About When They Get Together?: A Conversation with Lilada & Antonette
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Join in on this week's conversation with Lilada Gee and her good friend, Antonette Crosby, as they discuss the host's work in male prisons, their theory of male energy, and many other topics. They will argue, they will banter, but mostly, they will laugh - can you tell that they forget the mics are even on? Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our ne…
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Holiday Special: Trauma, Drama, and Yo' Momma!
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Who could have imagined that an interview from 4 years ago would still be so timely? In this holiday special, host Lilada Gee reintroduces an oldie, but a goodie as she and her guests speak on family drama, trauma, and the difficulties of family dynamics. Featuring guests Cassandra Marzette (then her assistant), Myra McNair - owner and founder of A…
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Sharon Johnson: From Buckingham Palace to Suicide
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Our featured guest, Sharon Johnson, was a world-class athlete who even had the opportunity to meet Queen Elizabeth. Yet, her trauma and turmoil drove her to the brink of suicide. Tune in to this powerful conversation as we discuss why accolades and medals mean very little when we are hurting on the inside. If you or someone you know is struggling w…
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Speak Out Loud, So Others Won’t Suffer in Silence
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To defend Black girlhood, we must use our journey to advocate and give voice to the voiceless. In this episode, Nancy Yarbrough-Banks - author of The Exodus and Founder of Fresh Start Learning, Inc. in Milwaukee, WI - shares her powerful testimony of victim to advocacy in the exploitative world of sex-trafficking. Joined by in-studio guest, Annette…
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Aprina Paul: Telling Her Story to Save a Life, Part 2
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In part 2 of our conversation with Alice Larrue we learn more horrifying details about the white supremacist who murdered her daughter. More, Larrue shares about the impact that trauma and stress had on her body after experiencing heartbreaking tragedy and details the need for Black women to use our testimony as a vehicle to heal. Website: Lilada.o…
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Aprina Paul: Telling Her Story to Save a Life
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In 2013, 18-year-old Aprina Paul couldn’t have anticipated that her response to a Craigslist ad would lead to her tragic murder. Since then, her mother, Alice Larrue, has made it her mission to empower, listen, and educate others about the dangers of sex-trafficking. Join us for our powerful 2-part conversation with Alice Larrue as she details her …
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Black Women Struggling, Healing, and Struggling to Heal!
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We’re back and - true to our mission - ready to defend Black girlhood throughout Season 2! As we start this journey off, Lilada Gee is joined with her dynamic duo - Alexandra and Cassandra - in this raw and hilariously honest conversation about not only the importance of healing but the struggle of healing, too! Original music by Zachary Moncrieff …
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Will You Remember Erika Hill?
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As we come to the end of Season One, we remember and give honor to Erika Hill and her life. In the telling of one story - her story - and in the context of the 65,000 reported missing Black girls - we can better understand that each life matters when we can connect with one. Defending Black Girlhood is the responsibility of us all. The lives of the…
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Was Erika Hill Murdered?
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We have reached the end of season 1 and it all comes to a head in this episode. Join Lilada Gee as she recaps the story of Erika Hill, talks with Dr. Jasmine Zapata - a local area doctor - who helps to decipher the autopsy report, and reveal Marie Hill's criminal charges. As this season closes and final details are disclosed, it's your turn to dete…
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Could the Black Community Have Saved Erika?, Part 3
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As we wrap up part three, Lilada Gee talks with her team - producer, Alexandra, and creative director, Cassandra - in an effort to answer the question, "Could the Black Community Have Saved Erika?" Join us as we reflect upon the conversations with Anthony and Catina McAlister, challenge the perceptions of physical discipline, and reflect upon the i…
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Could the Black Community Have Saved Erika?, Part 2
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While we continue seeking answers to the question, "Could the Black Community Have Saved Erika?," we come into part two with host, Lilada Gee, as she speaks with Marie's former classmate, Catina McAlister. As she processes her experience with Marie Hill and her children during their time in an adult education course, we explore ways the community c…
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Could the Black Community Have Saved Erika?, Part 1
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In this three-part exploration of "Could the Black Community Have Saved Erika?", we focus on the ways the Black community missed some key aspects of Erika Hill's abuse. Part 1 features a short conversation with Anthony McAlister and his experience with the Hill family as he cared for them in a local daycare and Lilada Gee details how to recognize t…
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Are Black Girls Like Erika Safe in the Black Church?
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As we continue our conversation about (Taylin) Marie Hill, we are joined by a former friend and church member of hers who provides her perception of Marie in the church. In part two of the episode, we have a much needed conversation with three Black pastors - Rev. Dr. Alexander Gee, Rev. Dr. Marcus Allen, and the Hon. Rev. Dr. Pastor Everett Mitche…
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What Do You Mean We're Almost Done?!
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We are near the end of season one of Defending Black Girlhood podcast! With such crazy times, we wanted to take a moment to reflect, shout-out, and prepare for what's to come! Tune in to this short episode as we prepare the final episodes of season one! Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would love your support: Patreon.com/Lilada…
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Join host, Lilada Gee, and creative director, Cassandra Marzette, in this "Beyond the Conversation" with Minister Wanda Smith as we discuss church, abuse, white supremacy, and opportunities for action. Instagram: @LiladaGee @DefendingBlackGirlhood Facebook: @DefendingBlackGirlhood
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Was Marie a Woman of God?
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We're back! With only a few episodes left, we continue to unravel more about (Taylin) Marie Hill. Over the course of this season, we’ve heard that Marie was such a sanctified, holy and helpful spirit and we wanted to know just how involved in the church she was. This week we talked with Minister Wanda Smith, a woman who was a member of Marie’s chur…
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Did I Really Know Marie?
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As if Erika's story was meant to be told, the very first episode we recorded about her was a chance conversation with Annette Sallay, a long-time friend of Marie Hill - Erika's abuser and guardian. She recounts the Marie that she came to know and details how she felt about Marie's dark side. *Because we were early in our research, some thoughts wer…
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Before moving on with the second half of Erika's story, we felt it necessary to take this week to get back to ground zero. At the root of this podcast is the mission to defend Black girlhood and it is imperative, in light of ongoing circumstances in America, to acknowledge the trauma that Black girls and Black women inherited throughout generations…
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Mid-Season Check-in: I Think Ms. Lilada Found Her Missing F*cks!
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This week, host Lilada Gee is joined in conversation with her daughter and producer, Alexandra, and creative director, Cassandra (not to mention a 3-year aged bottle of rum). If the "f-bomb" offends you, brace yourselves and your ears, for a raw and honest conversation during this impromptu girl chat about the current frustrations and circumstances…
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What is it about Ms. Hill?
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To wrap up conversations with the Wright Middle School community, we speak with former principals, Nancy Evans and Dr. Ed Holmes, who knew Erika throughout her time at Wright. While they reflect on Erika Hill’s quiet presence, they begin to recall moments with Taylin Marie Hill - Erika’s guardian and abuser. What was it about Ms. Hill that stayed w…
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What Happened to Erika's Light?
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As we unravel Erika Hill's story, most of the accounts so far amplify her life in the midst of abuse and neglect. So much so it begs the question, "Was Erika's life always that way?" This week we talk with Mr. & Mrs. Davis, former educators & directors of the African American Ethnic Academy (Madison, WI) who met Erika when she first arrived in Wisc…
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Erika's Death Was Not Our Fault, Right? Right?!
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As we piece together the puzzle that was Erika Hill’s life, we find out that more may have been known about her terrible circumstances than originally thought. Joining us for this week’s conversation is Laurel Ravelo, Wright Middle School’s counselor, who was a part of a team effort to uncover Erika’s secret. In this episode, the host, Lilada Gee, …
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What Does Carla Remember About Erika?
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Following a chance meeting, we are joined in conversation with Carla Williams, former classmate and friend of Erika Hill. In remembering her, she reveals a heartbreaking moment before Erika's disappearance in 2004. Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would love your support: patreon.com/Lilada Instagram: @LiladaGee @DefendingBlackG…
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In this "Beyond the Conversation," creative director, Cassandra Marzette, joins our host, Lilada, and guest, Jyneeva, in a raw and unfiltered conversation about Erika Hill and the challenges we face when using “mental health” as a scapegoat. Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would love your support: patreon.com/Lilada Instagram: …
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Could a 12-Year-Old Have Saved Erika's Life?, Pt. 2
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In part two of this conversation, we go one-on-one with Jyneeva Hunt, who continues her emotional testimony of Erika Hill’s impact on her life. Jyneeva’s heart and actions suggest that the answer to Erika’s deep, dark, and complex situation was easy enough for a 12-year-old to figure out. Get close enough to take an intimate look at someone’s life …
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Could a 12-Year-Old Have Saved Erika's Life?
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As we continue to explore Erika Hill’s story, it’s been difficult finding anyone who was both close to Erika and willing to speak on her behalf. In a chance conversation with Jackie Hunt, who knew Taylin Marie Hill, a friend of Erika’s was discovered: Jackie’s daughter, Jyneeva. Part one of the emotional conversation with Jackie Hunt and her daught…
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Should Erika Have Trusted Her?
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Whew, chile! That conversation with Monica Caldwell left us with so many questions and many more leads. This week we talk with Sara Knutson, Erika’s teacher who had an incredibly pivotal role in her life. Tune in as she details the moments leading to the reveal of Erika’s horrifying secret. *New episodes every Sunday!* Website: Lilada.org — subscri…
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In this "Beyond the Conversation," Lilada continues her discussion with former school social worker, Monica Caldwell, as they explore the crucial impact of "White Womaness" on defending Black girlhood. Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would love your support: Patreon.com/Lilada Instagram: @LiladaGee @DefendingBlackGirlhood Faceb…
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What Happened on Erika's Last Day of School?
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Each week we are joined in conversation with some of the key friends, educators, and community members who were present in Erika’s story. We invite you to help reflect on missed steps as we work to answer, “Who killed Erika Hill?” This week we’ll hear from Monica Caldwell, Wright Middle School’s social worker in 2004, as she reflects on her time wi…
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Who Killed Erika Hill? It's Complicated...
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Answering the question, “Who killed Erika Hill?” is very complicated. In her tragic story of life and death, we will discover that not only is it true that it takes a village to raise a child - it takes a village to kill one, too! Website: Lilada.org — subscribe to our newsletter We would love your support: patreon.com/Lilada Instagram: @LiladaGee …
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I Can't Do This By Myself!
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Seriously unapologetic about her fierce defense of Black girls, host Lilada Gee, shares a bit of her fun side in this conversation with her in studio Defending Black Girlhood dream team that has helped to make this vision a reality—producer, Alexandra, and creative director, Cassandra. After listening to this conversation you will definitely be con…
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Raw and moving, this inaugural Ground Zero episode encapsulates the foundation of the life’s work of host, Lilada Gee, and the root mission of the podcast. She begins by reading a reflection about healing and then is swept up by an impromptu sharing that rose from her soul…Black women must heal, if we have any hope of defending Black girlhood, beca…
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