Beste Esther Perel podcasts (2024)

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Say More - Esther Perel on Fantasy with Gillian Anderson 59:01

8d ago59:01

59:01

Recently, on Where Should We Begin, we've been focusing on the things we sweep under the rug in our relationships—conversations that we have a hard time having with ourselves let alone with others. Oftentimes, our sexual fantasies exist in this space and reveal us at our most bare, showing us not just what we want sexually, but what we want emotion…

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How Many Times Can I Forgive You? 1:03:14

15d ago1:03:14

1:03:14

A year after explosive revelations of cheating and the existence of a 14 year old son her partner never told her about, a woman receives a call about a fresh round of betrayal. She is humiliated and in crisis, while her partner’s ability to compartmentalize has rendered him a ghost in his own life. They love each other and parent two boys but may n…

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Questions You Aren't Allowed to Ask 52:49

29d ago52:49

52:49

This is a classic session of Where Should We Begin?, but might still be new to many of you. What began as an eight-year affair between two women has stretched into a 19-year partnership. But despite their private commitment to one another, they’ve never quite managed to move beyond the shame of their origin story. Esther takes a novel approach to r…

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Esther Calling - You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding 49:19

1M ago49:19

49:19

Imagine meeting the love of your life at work. And a few months in, you want to keep the guy but ditch the job. Which is fine—until your fiancé wants to invite your evil ex-boss to the wedding. In this Esther Calling a young woman seeks advice from Esther on how to handle the conflict arising with her fiancé and his decision to invite her former ab…

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Love the Child, Not the Father 59:16

1M ago59:16

59:16

Theirs is an accelerated love story. They moved in, decided to have a baby, and are now struggling to weather the hardships of parenting together. She feels unsupported and like she's the only adult in the room. He is overwhelmed and constantly feels put down by her. They have split up emotionally but not yet physically. Esther helps them sort thro…

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Best Friends Don't Make For the Best Bosses 45:35

2M ago45:35

45:35

They have been best friends for years. He opened a book store and she was his first employee. Things were great until they weren't. She left to preserve the friendship- but a year later they still haven’t talked about what went wrong with them professionally. Esther talks to her about how to start a different kind of business relationship if they w…

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You're Inching Me Out 55:00

2M ago55:00

55:00

This is a classic session, from the first season of How's Work? They were mates in university before co-founding a successful communications company. They still work together from different coasts, but they barely speak. One wants to move on; the other is grasping for his former friend. Neither can find the words to talk about it. Esther’s two new …

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Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire 55:41

2M ago55:41

55:41

This week, Esther is in a borrowed bedroom in Los Angeles, the perfect place to talk about desire and the novel on every bedside table, All Fours. The writer, director, and artist, Miranda July, joins Esther to examine the erotic and to explore how love and desire relate and how they conflict in modern relationships. They discuss the tension betwee…

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Esther Calling - Why Can't I Find Someone? Is it Me? 40:28

2M ago40:28

40:28

Esther speaks to a woman who feels frustrated and stuck in her dating patterns. She loves going on dates, regularly meets people out and about, and feels open to having multiple forms of a relationship. And still…she gets to one or two or three dates before the relationship fizzles out. Esther gives her a new way to think about it and reframes her …

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We Had Boundaries and He Crossed Them 1:06:33

3M ago1:06:33

1:06:33

They were in a consensual, non-monogamous relationship and happily growing their family. But he broke the first rule of their relationship, and it resulted in a major crisis—an unplanned pregnancy involving another woman. They are committed to each other, but this unforeseen transformation of their family has many unexpected consequences that invol…

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The Arc of Love - Happily Divorced 1:01:57

3M ago1:01:57

1:01:57

They're amicably divorced divorce lawyers, carving out a new kind of relationship after the end of their marriage. Esther reframes their situation and proposes a radical solution. What you are about to hear is a series Esther calls The Arc of Love. Each session centers around a couple’s story. Whether it’s issues of trust and betrayal, care and agg…

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The Arc of Love - All The Things We Never Said 53:10

3M ago53:10

53:10

Often when a relationship ends, we're left with regrets, questions, and conversations we wish we could have had. Esther helps a woman process the things she left unsaid including the sexual grief and loss she feels after her husband unexpectedly died. What you are about to hear is a series Esther calls The Arc of Love. Each session centers around a…

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The Arc of Love - A Romantic Revival 52:43

4M ago52:43

52:43

This episode contains discussions of a death by suicide. Please take care listening. The suicide of his first wife left four traumatized children in its wake; she's spent six years putting the pieces back together. They're both ready to experience joy in their marriage, but can't quite figure out how. Esther coaches them through the difference betw…

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The Arc of Love - The Other Woman 53:29

4M ago53:29

53:29

Ten years and two kids later, a wife comes to Esther looking for answers: does she want to explore her attraction to women because she's bisexual, or because she no longer wants to be married to her husband? What you are about to hear is a series Esther calls The Arc of Love. Each session centers around a couple’s story. Whether it’s issues of trus…

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The Arc of Love - The Poly Dinner Party 51:06

4M ago51:06

51:06

Join Esther for a dinner table conversation on the topic of polyamory. The dinner was held to mark the anniversary of a panel discussion Esther was part of on the same topic ten years earlier. Together the original panel and a few new friends explore what has changed in the last decade as consensual non-monogamy has become more mainstream, why some…

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The Arc of Love - A Small Town Affair 50:22

4M ago50:22

50:22

It began as a passionate affair and ended two marriages. Now, they're struggling as they try to build trust. Esther encourages them to be brutally honest--with themselves. What you are about to hear is a series Esther calls The Arc of Love. Each session centers around a couple’s story. Whether it’s issues of trust and betrayal, care and aggression,…

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The Arc of Love - Young Love 50:36

4M ago50:36

50:36

They met in college; he's a U.S. citizen and she's trapped in a cross-border limbo. Their young love complicated by immigration status and politics, Esther helps them appreciate each other's sacrifices as they contemplate marriage. What you are about to hear is a series Esther calls The Arc of Love. Each session centers around a couple’s story. Whe…

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The Arc of Love - I Don't Think I Want Kids? But My Partner Might? 54:15

5M ago54:15

54:15

The Arc of Love is my gift to you as your summer beach listen of 2024. A curated collection of stories about trust and betrayal, care and aggression, closeness and distance, attraction and disgust, rupture and repair. As the stories mirror and amplify our own experiences, they help us grapple with the parts of ourselves that hold the same emotions,…

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Impotent is No Way To Define a Man 47:19

5M ago47:19

47:19

This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A husband hasn’t had an erection in 12 years and struggles with acknowledging it openly. His wife, in despair over her feelings of hopelessness in the bedroom, seeks relief from her sexual frustration and feelings of resentment. Esther reinforces to both of them that definin…

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You Keep Planning A Future Without Me 51:47

5M ago51:47

51:47

They met as community organizers in their neighborhood. She had just gotten out of a multi-year marriage to her ex-wife and began to forge new friendships. After about a year, something shifted for her and she began to develop feelings for him, sending her seemingly solid identity into a tailspin. After 15 years of identifying as a lesbian, she was…

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Esther Calling - Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This? 51:59

5M ago51:59

51:59

Four affairs and four divorces later, she is searching for answers as to why she can’t stop leaving in such an abrupt way. Despite longing for a life partner, she questions her ability to maintain a healthy and stable relationship. Esther seeks to uncover the root of these issues and help her forge a new path forward as she embarks on what she hope…

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Trauma Doesn't Like to Be Touched 40:23

6M ago40:23

40:23

This is a classic session, from the first season of Where Should We Begin? A newly married couple comes to Esther for guidance on how to create a space of safety and physical intimacy while also giving voice to past trauma. One partner is working to overcome an aversion to physical touch due to abuse from his past while the other is learning to ask…

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Esther Calling - What If I Break Up With My Dad? 49:46

6M ago49:46

49:46

Esther takes a question from a young woman struggling with her relationship with her father. A recent divorce and the slow reveal of an affair on the part of her father has ruptured the family- and leaves her questioning whether or not her father should continue to have a role in her life. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional…

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Esther Calling - It Feels Like My Siblings Abandoned Me 37:41

6M ago37:41

37:41

In this Esther Calling, Esther speaks to a young woman grappling with the burden of caring for her ailing parents and the feelings of resentment she feels towards her older siblings. But the true cause of this family conflict goes much deeper than who is showing up and who is not. Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional phone ca…

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Does Growing Up Mean Growing Apart? 1:03:05

7M ago1:03:05

1:03:05

They grew up together and now run a production company. They are contending with the growing pains of transitioning from best friends to coworkers and the challenges of running, essentially, a family business. Esther helps them find the complementarity in their roles and see their story as growing and developing even in the face of challenges. Lear…

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Esther Perel Podcasts

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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media

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How's Work? with Esther Perel

Esther Perel Global Media

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Say More - Esther Perel on Fantasy with Gillian Anderson 59:01

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How Many Times Can I Forgive You? 1:03:14

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Questions You Aren't Allowed to Ask 52:49

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Esther Calling - You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding 49:19

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Love the Child, Not the Father 59:16

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Best Friends Don't Make For the Best Bosses 45:35

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You're Inching Me Out 55:00

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Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire 55:41

1
Esther Calling - Why Can't I Find Someone? Is it Me? 40:28

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We Had Boundaries and He Crossed Them 1:06:33

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The Arc of Love - Happily Divorced 1:01:57

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The Arc of Love - All The Things We Never Said 53:10

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The Arc of Love - A Romantic Revival 52:43

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The Arc of Love - The Other Woman 53:29

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The Arc of Love - The Poly Dinner Party 51:06

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The Arc of Love - A Small Town Affair 50:22

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The Arc of Love - Young Love 50:36

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The Arc of Love - I Don't Think I Want Kids? But My Partner Might? 54:15

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Impotent is No Way To Define a Man 47:19

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You Keep Planning A Future Without Me 51:47

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Esther Calling - Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This? 51:59

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Trauma Doesn't Like to Be Touched 40:23

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Esther Calling - What If I Break Up With My Dad? 49:46

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Esther Calling - It Feels Like My Siblings Abandoned Me 37:41

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Does Growing Up Mean Growing Apart? 1:03:05

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